"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok, heres a situation...opinions??

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Ok as a side note here - I am the worst at picking up on hints etc so Im confused about a couple things here.

This girl who I meet around last wk - got her number last thurs...hung out for a little bit sat....had lunch with her today.

She asked me to hang out with her tonight but she is bringing her friend and her sister - so not quite the invite that puts a whole lot out there.

However...during lunch she mentioned what a couple of her exs did - one flew planes in the military and another one plays pro baseball:confused: She is pre-law - if that matters at all.

Went in for a goodbye hug after lunch - she didnt pull away but she didnt lean in all that far so I quickly shrugged it off and wasnt worried about playing it off that much, but it was just kinda weird. She calls like two minutes later when Im on my way back to work and was like oh that was so much fun and u better be there tonight.

She was the one to 'chase' me down when we first met and she wanted to met me for lunch today...now Im not the smartest at this stuff but its like she's sending mixed messages.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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don't read into all those little details.just be cooler then her and wait for her to continue to chase
 

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yea she complained that I wasnt calling her:D
 

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they complain because the want u to chase,but we all know they secretly only want guys they had to chase
 

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so far so good but don't make her turn you into an afc
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Neoscarecrue
they complain because the want u to chase,but we all know they secretly only want guys they had to chase
yep...the ones Ive gotten along with best and the ones that ate out of my palms forever are the ones that had to chase me down - which is most of them ha

just cant quite figure out what shes trying to do here - oh well ha
 
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You're in luck. Since she's only in pre-law it means she still has a soul.

(I say that as a law student who no longer feels the cold of a dark winters morning, nor the warmth of a womans touch)

Go for it.
 
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