MiketheSpike
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Ok so I was convienced by a friend the other day who has finally gotten a girl for himself, to read a book and visit this website. So there I was reading The Game by Neil Strauss, after finishing the book I still feel like it hasn't filled up the hole for me to become confident and talk to a girl. I finished the book in a rush, all 240 pages in 2 days and there I knew I need more material to overcome whatever barrier I got that keeps me from talking to a girl, I'm 19 now and oh I had the opportunity to get laid, I got ****blocked and was too shy to make any major moves, or was just simply rejected. I'm gonna admit it was all going smooth with me and girls till I turned 14 and went onto the computer-nerd status with some sort of a social life. I've went to the gym, I drink every weekend and I get high with my friends..There's this one difference between us though, out of lets say 3 best friends I have 2 are somewhat succesful with girls and have gotten laid and me and the other friend which I played online games with haven't gotten laid. I really became a disaster and I blame my addiction to online games. I'm somewhat in shape because I went to the gym but I have all the negative traits I can have in my personality; I talk low and too fast and I don't know what to say when around a girl.
After looking at all this and reading The Game (****ing best book I've read my entire life btw) I really believe there's still a chance for me to become a player and master the game =). First thing I need advice in is; which books are the best to read *ones which mainly talk about getting confidence and how to overcome the barrier of coming up to a girl and keeping a conversation without looking like a ****** I was looking at the book How to get a girlfriend written by some of the friends Neil Strauss hung out with and also at the book David DeAngelo has written. I'm here to read as many books/material as possible in order to become a dating machine. I hate not being able to do anything when I spot a 8 or a 9...I guess I'm just really shy. For example my first day in college (community college ;/) I sit myself in a math class and there walks in a straight 9 the same one that I've been eye****ing about 2 hours ago in the hallway and sits right beside me..So there I am trying to keep cool and eventually spot her staring at me with the side of my eye and what do I do? Simply nothing.
And holy ****, I wish I've never had touched an online game that way I could be smoother with girls but well, there's nothing I can do about it now other than try and learn what others have perfected which is The Game.
I know there's many great players out there who possibly adapted Neil Strauss's (or simply Style's) techniques and I would like some feedback or response
I need help bad :/ thx in advance.
ps sorry for the long post, this is the longest one I've written my entire life
ps2 I really think I need to work on my speech, in 8th grade while doing my exit project I had people laughing at me and closing windows just so they could hear me, yeah it was pathetic...any tips on that? should I call someone who helps with your speech?
After looking at all this and reading The Game (****ing best book I've read my entire life btw) I really believe there's still a chance for me to become a player and master the game =). First thing I need advice in is; which books are the best to read *ones which mainly talk about getting confidence and how to overcome the barrier of coming up to a girl and keeping a conversation without looking like a ****** I was looking at the book How to get a girlfriend written by some of the friends Neil Strauss hung out with and also at the book David DeAngelo has written. I'm here to read as many books/material as possible in order to become a dating machine. I hate not being able to do anything when I spot a 8 or a 9...I guess I'm just really shy. For example my first day in college (community college ;/) I sit myself in a math class and there walks in a straight 9 the same one that I've been eye****ing about 2 hours ago in the hallway and sits right beside me..So there I am trying to keep cool and eventually spot her staring at me with the side of my eye and what do I do? Simply nothing.
And holy ****, I wish I've never had touched an online game that way I could be smoother with girls but well, there's nothing I can do about it now other than try and learn what others have perfected which is The Game.
I know there's many great players out there who possibly adapted Neil Strauss's (or simply Style's) techniques and I would like some feedback or response
I need help bad :/ thx in advance.
ps sorry for the long post, this is the longest one I've written my entire life
ps2 I really think I need to work on my speech, in 8th grade while doing my exit project I had people laughing at me and closing windows just so they could hear me, yeah it was pathetic...any tips on that? should I call someone who helps with your speech?
