"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ok guys..
- Thread starter Trapper
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
typical
Master Don Juan
BTW I think she may have said "how do you want me ?"
I'd probably say covered in honey or something like that
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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HER: "How do you wanna me?"Trapper said:
YOU: "Uhh... hold on a second. I've got to see if the sosuave.net guys can think of any ****y and or funny responses to this question! I'll be right back!"
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
:crackup: haha! don't look now, but the dude below you thinks there's a "tonne" of things you could say. :crackup:Demonslut said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
:crackup: thank you.Giovanni Casanova said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
ValleyDJing said:
???
A tonne is the metric equivalent of a "ton".
1 tonne = 1000 kilograms
your comment kinda backfired there, but now you know, so it's all good in the end.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:Giovanni Casanova said:
:crackup: :crackup:ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
eh...whatever. haha, all you brits! alright you got me.The Juan and only said: