"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ok guys..
- Thread starter Trapper
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
typical
Master Don Juan
BTW I think she may have said "how do you want me ?"
I'd probably say covered in honey or something like that
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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HER: "How do you wanna me?"Trapper said:
YOU: "Uhh... hold on a second. I've got to see if the sosuave.net guys can think of any ****y and or funny responses to this question! I'll be right back!"
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
:crackup: haha! don't look now, but the dude below you thinks there's a "tonne" of things you could say. :crackup:Demonslut said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
:crackup: thank you.Giovanni Casanova said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
ValleyDJing said:
???
A tonne is the metric equivalent of a "ton".
1 tonne = 1000 kilograms
your comment kinda backfired there, but now you know, so it's all good in the end.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:Giovanni Casanova said:
:crackup: :crackup:ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
eh...whatever. haha, all you brits! alright you got me.The Juan and only said: