"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK guys heres what women REALLY want!

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think what ladies find sexy and what they select for a LTR are completely different.
 

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Wtf, just read that last bit:

New York matchmaker Janis Spindel, a self-described specialist at setting up "highly successful, well-educated, attractive professionals," confirmed the survey's findings. "It's scary, but women don't care [about looks]," she said. "Men are very superficial and very shallow."

But Spindel disputed the claim that women don't care about finding a rich man: "Women want a man who makes more money than they do," she said. "They want to be able to live a comfortable lifestyle."
:rolleyes:

I guess women aren't shallow because they're just in it for the money, but men are because they like a good looking woman. :confused: I don't like this Janis Spindel character :down:
 

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burning bag of doggie poo anyone?

Originally posted by sempor
Wtf, just read that last bit:


:rolleyes:

I guess women aren't shallow because they're just in it for the money, but men are because they like a good looking woman. :confused: I don't like this Janis Spindel character :down:
I agree, I don't like this Janis person either but I'd leave a burning bag of something smelly on on her doorstep as a thank-you present just the same.
 
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