"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OK guys heres what women REALLY want!

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SELF-MASTERY

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I think what ladies find sexy and what they select for a LTR are completely different.
 

sempor

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Wtf, just read that last bit:

New York matchmaker Janis Spindel, a self-described specialist at setting up "highly successful, well-educated, attractive professionals," confirmed the survey's findings. "It's scary, but women don't care [about looks]," she said. "Men are very superficial and very shallow."

But Spindel disputed the claim that women don't care about finding a rich man: "Women want a man who makes more money than they do," she said. "They want to be able to live a comfortable lifestyle."
:rolleyes:

I guess women aren't shallow because they're just in it for the money, but men are because they like a good looking woman. :confused: I don't like this Janis Spindel character :down:
 

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burning bag of doggie poo anyone?

Originally posted by sempor
Wtf, just read that last bit:


:rolleyes:

I guess women aren't shallow because they're just in it for the money, but men are because they like a good looking woman. :confused: I don't like this Janis Spindel character :down:
I agree, I don't like this Janis person either but I'd leave a burning bag of something smelly on on her doorstep as a thank-you present just the same.
 
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