"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ok guys. a little help here

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russian2

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im not looking for a relationship right now. just looking to get laid. this chick that works with me flat out told me she likes me and wants my number. i didnt know how to repond because i never expected her to make any kind of move. however like i said i dont want a relationship. how do i tell her i just want the benefeits
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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magickarl

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You don't. Not if you wanna get the tang. Actually, even if its just a sex relationship, its still a relationship. So you don't really have to lie to her.

Give her your number. Let her call you, set up a time to hang out with her. Bang her. Always be respectful of her, and bang her some more. Don't call her, unless it is to "hang out" which leads to banging. Also, talk about her feelings when she wants to. Then bang her.

When she wants to talk about your feelings, or where you feel the relationship is going... Tell her "I think things are going good." A great way to dodge the bullet if she directly asks you if you two are exclusive is to accuse her of sleeping around on you, but with some humor. If she keeps pressing the buttons, tell her you aren't with anybody else right now (Which isn't a lie. At that instant, you would be with her.)

After that... Bang her.

Pretty soon she will develop an understanding that when she sees you, it means sex.
 
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guywhoneedshelp

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Take her out, do the whole thing, bang her, and just tell he you aren't ready for anything serious. Let her know that you will keep in touch with her, but don't promise anything. Set the bar low.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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