"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok guys. a little help here

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russian2

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im not looking for a relationship right now. just looking to get laid. this chick that works with me flat out told me she likes me and wants my number. i didnt know how to repond because i never expected her to make any kind of move. however like i said i dont want a relationship. how do i tell her i just want the benefeits
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You don't. Not if you wanna get the tang. Actually, even if its just a sex relationship, its still a relationship. So you don't really have to lie to her.

Give her your number. Let her call you, set up a time to hang out with her. Bang her. Always be respectful of her, and bang her some more. Don't call her, unless it is to "hang out" which leads to banging. Also, talk about her feelings when she wants to. Then bang her.

When she wants to talk about your feelings, or where you feel the relationship is going... Tell her "I think things are going good." A great way to dodge the bullet if she directly asks you if you two are exclusive is to accuse her of sleeping around on you, but with some humor. If she keeps pressing the buttons, tell her you aren't with anybody else right now (Which isn't a lie. At that instant, you would be with her.)

After that... Bang her.

Pretty soon she will develop an understanding that when she sees you, it means sex.
 
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guywhoneedshelp

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Take her out, do the whole thing, bang her, and just tell he you aren't ready for anything serious. Let her know that you will keep in touch with her, but don't promise anything. Set the bar low.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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