"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh, the money women want...

slims999

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Ya know, I'm an average looking guy and understand looks and all that **** is important, but I'll be damned if a woman is TOTALLY politically correct when they say "I'm not in it for the money."

I'm sorry but its bull**** dont you all agree?

The situation is this: I'm living at home and just got a new full time job. I'm saving a ton of money working 49-52 hours a week (which im fine with, its easy work, data entry and telemarketing), and will bring home a pretty PHAT paycheck.

Now lies the dilemma... I've never had cash like this and I want to spend it on me of course (help the camaro out a little bit, put some rims on it, new cd player) but also What type of brand pants and shirts do chicks seem to dig. Its coming into the cool season (even for here in Dallas) so I suppose sweaters and long sleeve shirts would be good. I'm so damn skinny anyways, its good to have long sleeves.

If you're going to write something stupid like "clothes dont make the man", just don't bother, I'm not saying that they do, I'm just trying to "UP MY STYLE" in a sense.

I should also let you know I'm not looking for a "special someone", I'm 21, who needs a lover at 21? Too young, I'm just looking for a good hot girl to bang here and there to pick up at a club. My sense of confidence is quite high, and has been for awhile, especially since I got a new job, I feel much more secure and free, and ready to go out and meet girls.

So if you all wouldnt mind listing brand names, websites of brand names, or whatever chicks are into.

Are chicks into jewelry? Male Arm bracelets, etc?

Thanks
slims
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just curious

I was just curious what yall felt was comfortable.
 

NatureGuy

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(help the camaro out a little bit, put some rims on it, new cd player)
Here's my advice: instead of wasting your money on vanity items as mentioned above, invest it and build some net worth.
Take advantage of the opportunity your parents have given you to build wealth.
Or go to college. Oh yes, I forgot: all of these will make you more attractive to women too.
 

evolvingnerd

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although there are far better things to do with the money
some good labels are polo ralph lauren, i've heard a lot of ppl mention some deisel jeans

just run a search
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cremasta

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Put your money into getting your own place... that way you can bring home as many women as often as you like and shag the pulse out of them.
 

jakeyboy

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polo shirts: Ashworth... not too pricey... still looks classy.

jeans: Diesel, Levi's

slacks: Rochas Paris...very affordable.

button down shirts: Kenneth Cole. Lee Cooper, Brad Hopkins (the basic idea here is if ya looking for good cheap budget.. get down to the middle priced boutiques.. the clothes aren't so pricey, yet you still look good.. the clothes don't make the man... you make the clothes! it depends on how you carry it off regardless of the price, i wouldn't advice you to jump right into the high priced boutiques just yet...)

shoes: Lee Cooper, Doc Martens, Timberlands


this is just my personal style.. hope it gave you some insight... i'm more of an earth tone colored person... like brown, khaki, cream..

dunno what style you are.. but find it and keep with it.
 

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I'm in the same boat as you slims, I work full time and make mad loot while living with my parents. I suggest saving as much $$$ as possible so you can invest in getting your own place.
 

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Originally posted by Paintballguy
I'm in the same boat as you slims, I work full time and make mad loot while living with my parents. I suggest saving as much $$$ as possible so you can invest in getting your own place.

Yeah when it all comes down to it, since I'm only 21, and let's say I'd save 10-15 grand to put down on a 50-60k condo (which isn't too bad here), that'd be the best way to go. I'd own it! No rent down the drain!

Then again, my car is 4 year old with hub caps.... that are 4 years old, it's sad. Is there such thing as a pimp without chrome rims on a black camaro? I don't think so haha. I actually found some nice chromes for my car on ebay for way less than $1000.

Either way, I won't just blast my money away, saving money is top priority for me. Even with nice clothes I don't plan to spend over 400-500 total for the rest of the year, so we'll see.

Thanks again for the advice. TTYL.
 

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
polo shirts: Ashworth... not too pricey... still looks classy.

jeans: Diesel, Levi's

slacks: Rochas Paris...very affordable.

button down shirts: Kenneth Cole. Lee Cooper, Brad Hopkins (the basic idea here is if ya looking for good cheap budget.. get down to the middle priced boutiques.. the clothes aren't so pricey, yet you still look good.. the clothes don't make the man... you make the clothes! it depends on how you carry it off regardless of the price, i wouldn't advice you to jump right into the high priced boutiques just yet...)

shoes: Lee Cooper, Doc Martens, Timberlands


this is just my personal style.. hope it gave you some insight... i'm more of an earth tone colored person... like brown, khaki, cream..

dunno what style you are.. but find it and keep with it.

I think I'm gonna go with A&F or polo shirts, good idea on the Ashworth.

Shoes I'll go with Kenneth Cole, Jeans definitely Diesel.

Thanks for your reply and everyone elses.

I'll let you all know what goes down since I just got paid this weekend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Slimey Slims,

Invest your money in something that will pay off.

holla,
thesage
 
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