"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh so now I'm ****y

Bigg Boss

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Last year when I used to talk to this girl, I was a humble guy. An AFC. But she liked me. But I was so AFC that I was scared to ask her out. Long story short, we had our good times and managed to stay close up til now (I continue to pull moves on her, and successful. Just can't get the KISS. everything else though).

Well I've evolved into a DJ and I've tooken her off the pedastal. I act like I know I'm the sh*t. I say stuff to her sometimes like "Why do you act like you don't like me?" or when she asks where are we goin today I say "I never said I was going anywhere with you"(I used to go along with it and be like what do you wanna do). We went to the movies earlier this week and I pulled a good bit of moves on her. Got her all over me, sitting on my lap in the movies, face close to mine. No kiss dammit.

I called her today and she said some stuff but what I really heard was "Now you're all ****y" or whatever. And then she was like "Don't you have some work to do?". I say "Do you want me to get off the phone or somethin?" She kept repeatin her question and I kept repeating mine and she was like "Whatever, bye". We hang up. :O

On our next encounter, should I not neg her and just be real nice to her? I guess I've finally given her the impression that I am confident (well.. .****y), and not so undecided like I used to be.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dannowillbookem

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u cant say 'no kiss damnit' its not like kissing is a complicated thing where she gets a chance to turn back...you just make the move. if she was on your lap and **** you shouldve kissed her, and she'll probably get bored if u dont.
 

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Something is wrong with this girl for real. I really don't understand her at all.

I did try to kiss her, but like ALL the other times that I was in the perfect position for a kiss, she always tucks her lips in. She doesn't push me out the way though like she should if she is against the kiss. She tucks her lips in and shakes her head looking at me. WTF? Why put yourself in that position then? I mean she was all over me, I'd be stupid not to try to kiss her.

But whatever. I never thought any girl would be so hard to get that I'd just quit. Especially when I'm this far in. Oh well, I guess she missed out
 

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Bigg Boss said:
Something is wrong with this girl for real. I really don't understand her at all.

I did try to kiss her, but like ALL the other times that I was in the perfect position for a kiss, she always tucks her lips in. She doesn't push me out the way though like she should if she is against the kiss. She tucks her lips in and shakes her head looking at me. WTF? Why put yourself in that position then? I mean she was all over me, I'd be stupid not to try to kiss her.

But whatever. I never thought any girl would be so hard to get that I'd just quit. Especially when I'm this far in. Oh well, I guess she missed out
How about you make her think youre gonna kiss her, then stop whisper something in her ear and leave.
 

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Look man you really dont have to be ****y at all. C&F and all other DeAngelo's stuff are only good for inner game.
Read the bible. Be the caring guy who takes no sh!t. I always use what i call italian technique, but actually it's not technique at all. (cuz if it was technique it wouldn't be so effective)
treat the girls as best as you can. simply be SUAVE.
if u r VERY ****y, you only show yourself as an AFC who projects his fears.
watch italian movies and u'll see how sweetly they attract women. my sister had a lot of italians approaching her, and she says that they r very nice, yet very attractive, even though ugly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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