"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Oh so now I'm ****y

Bigg Boss

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Last year when I used to talk to this girl, I was a humble guy. An AFC. But she liked me. But I was so AFC that I was scared to ask her out. Long story short, we had our good times and managed to stay close up til now (I continue to pull moves on her, and successful. Just can't get the KISS. everything else though).

Well I've evolved into a DJ and I've tooken her off the pedastal. I act like I know I'm the sh*t. I say stuff to her sometimes like "Why do you act like you don't like me?" or when she asks where are we goin today I say "I never said I was going anywhere with you"(I used to go along with it and be like what do you wanna do). We went to the movies earlier this week and I pulled a good bit of moves on her. Got her all over me, sitting on my lap in the movies, face close to mine. No kiss dammit.

I called her today and she said some stuff but what I really heard was "Now you're all ****y" or whatever. And then she was like "Don't you have some work to do?". I say "Do you want me to get off the phone or somethin?" She kept repeatin her question and I kept repeating mine and she was like "Whatever, bye". We hang up. :O

On our next encounter, should I not neg her and just be real nice to her? I guess I've finally given her the impression that I am confident (well.. .****y), and not so undecided like I used to be.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dannowillbookem

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u cant say 'no kiss damnit' its not like kissing is a complicated thing where she gets a chance to turn back...you just make the move. if she was on your lap and **** you shouldve kissed her, and she'll probably get bored if u dont.
 

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Something is wrong with this girl for real. I really don't understand her at all.

I did try to kiss her, but like ALL the other times that I was in the perfect position for a kiss, she always tucks her lips in. She doesn't push me out the way though like she should if she is against the kiss. She tucks her lips in and shakes her head looking at me. WTF? Why put yourself in that position then? I mean she was all over me, I'd be stupid not to try to kiss her.

But whatever. I never thought any girl would be so hard to get that I'd just quit. Especially when I'm this far in. Oh well, I guess she missed out
 

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Bigg Boss said:
Something is wrong with this girl for real. I really don't understand her at all.

I did try to kiss her, but like ALL the other times that I was in the perfect position for a kiss, she always tucks her lips in. She doesn't push me out the way though like she should if she is against the kiss. She tucks her lips in and shakes her head looking at me. WTF? Why put yourself in that position then? I mean she was all over me, I'd be stupid not to try to kiss her.

But whatever. I never thought any girl would be so hard to get that I'd just quit. Especially when I'm this far in. Oh well, I guess she missed out
How about you make her think youre gonna kiss her, then stop whisper something in her ear and leave.
 

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Look man you really dont have to be ****y at all. C&F and all other DeAngelo's stuff are only good for inner game.
Read the bible. Be the caring guy who takes no sh!t. I always use what i call italian technique, but actually it's not technique at all. (cuz if it was technique it wouldn't be so effective)
treat the girls as best as you can. simply be SUAVE.
if u r VERY ****y, you only show yourself as an AFC who projects his fears.
watch italian movies and u'll see how sweetly they attract women. my sister had a lot of italians approaching her, and she says that they r very nice, yet very attractive, even though ugly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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