"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh man, I've got to stop drinking so much

wootapotky

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Man this Saturday was crazy. This is the second time in 2 months that I've gotten completely plastered and passed out at a party. Now the amount of times I've done isn't that much, but the sh!t I do when plastered is the problem. There seems to be a barrier where before it I'm fine, don't make a fool of myself. But then any more drinks and I"m going overboard with how flirtatious I am and make a dumbass of myself. I've only just started drinking 5 months ago so I'm not too experienced and it worries me because I don't want to become an alcoholic. I hardly ever drink but I definitely don't want a habit to start.

Plus I hate making a fool of myself. Any tips for me since I'm fairly new to the drinking scene. Although I have a feeling that the suggestions will be don't drink so much.

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Scrap the over .39 BAC, it was probably somewhere in the .2's. I put in the wrong amount for a couple of my drinks. That's still way too much though. I don't want to tempt fate ever.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Since im drunk right now, and I posted a thread about the same thing practicly.. dont drink so often!!

just get a buzz bro, dont go overboard..from one guy to another, dont drink so much. its fu*kin up my life right now. :(....
just take it easy
 

wootapotky

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
Since im drunk right now, and I posted a thread about the same thing practicly.. dont drink so often!!

just get a buzz bro, dont go overboard..from one guy to another, dont drink so much. its fu*kin up my life right now. :(....
just take it easy
Yeah, I've got to stop it now before it becomes a problem.
 

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a few drinks is one thing, but what you are describing is poisoning your body. yeah you can drink too much and kill yourself, it happen lots of times.
 

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God, I remember when I used to get sh!tfaced nearly every weekend. I used to go through a bottle of cognac everytime. Got to the point where the hangovers were lasting for 3-4 days at a time, and I was wasting a ****load of money. Just drink in moderation, or you will regret it later on. How old are you wootapotky?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bible_Belt

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Stay away from hard alcohol and wine. Stick to beer. Don't forget to eat. If you keep your stomach full, it is about impossible to pass out from beer alone - you get too full to drink enough to make yourself too drunk.

Also, alcohol dehydrates you, so drink come water after you have had a couple drinks. Hangovers are mostly dehydration and sleep deprivation.
 
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