"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oh man. i need somebody to talk to right about my situation...!

Michele l'Arcangelo

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oh man. i need somebody to talk to right now about my situation if you can stay on and talk about it for a while.

dude im bummed/stressed like hell!

just post your AIM sn (only) here or PM me it.

i pretty much need somebody who can talk to me about it right now... since i need some quick help for tomorrow -- because if its to late... theres no point anymore to talk about it.

...a pretty BIG deal (to me)... im freaking out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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j8snx1

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j8snx1

lol, ill try to help to the best of my ability.
 
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