hungry_american
Don Juan
yeah im so stupid. I should of just kept her in the sack and had fun until I left for basic training.. Now to just wait for him to come after me..
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sleeping with another man's woman is bad.Originally posted by hungry_american
yeah im so stupid. I should of just kept her in the sack and had fun until I left for basic training.. Now to just wait for him to come after me..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She ain't goody goody if she is cheating!Originally posted by hungry_american
Hiding... Man I hope she doesnt make up some lame story. Like oh he raped me or some bull****. But in the pictures shes all smiling. Not only that she talked to him on the phone like noo and Im sure he could tell she wasnt drunk. And shes one of those goody goody no drugs or drink girls.. gahh ****
Quit and don't show up. Don't be stupid.Originally posted by hungry_american
Todays my last day at work ... and i work with her i bet hes going to come in and kick my ass... ****
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
who is going to judge you?! who gives a sh1t about that.Originally posted by hungry_american
But wouldnt that be more cowardly to just bail out on work on my last day.
This site teaches peopel to embrace their MANHOOD and be MEN and when some sl*ts BF is after them they cry and get scared. Man you are joining the army and you are scared of some guy....... GOODLUCKOriginally posted by hungry_american
I dont know what to do. Im so damn stupid. This girl I went out with kind of for a month. Well she had a boyfriend the whole time right. Well she told him me and her werent doing anything. And well I was pissed off being this *****es pawn right. Well tonight I took pictures with my phone of me and her in the sack and sent them to her ex on her phone. Hes pissed. She cried and said I ruined it and hit me and left. Even worse this emotionaly unstable girl boguht me a gold weddingringish ring.. And well I think now hes going to kick my ass... or would you guys be just mad at your girl if you where in his position?im deaddd
you took the words right outta my mouthOriginally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
LMFAO!!
Well, the kid's got balls... I'll give him that hahaha
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.