hungry_american
Don Juan
yeah im so stupid. I should of just kept her in the sack and had fun until I left for basic training.. Now to just wait for him to come after me..
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sleeping with another man's woman is bad.Originally posted by hungry_american
yeah im so stupid. I should of just kept her in the sack and had fun until I left for basic training.. Now to just wait for him to come after me..
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She ain't goody goody if she is cheating!Originally posted by hungry_american
Hiding... Man I hope she doesnt make up some lame story. Like oh he raped me or some bull****. But in the pictures shes all smiling. Not only that she talked to him on the phone like noo and Im sure he could tell she wasnt drunk. And shes one of those goody goody no drugs or drink girls.. gahh ****
Quit and don't show up. Don't be stupid.Originally posted by hungry_american
Todays my last day at work ... and i work with her i bet hes going to come in and kick my ass... ****
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
who is going to judge you?! who gives a sh1t about that.Originally posted by hungry_american
But wouldnt that be more cowardly to just bail out on work on my last day.
This site teaches peopel to embrace their MANHOOD and be MEN and when some sl*ts BF is after them they cry and get scared. Man you are joining the army and you are scared of some guy....... GOODLUCKOriginally posted by hungry_american
I dont know what to do. Im so damn stupid. This girl I went out with kind of for a month. Well she had a boyfriend the whole time right. Well she told him me and her werent doing anything. And well I was pissed off being this *****es pawn right. Well tonight I took pictures with my phone of me and her in the sack and sent them to her ex on her phone. Hes pissed. She cried and said I ruined it and hit me and left. Even worse this emotionaly unstable girl boguht me a gold weddingringish ring.. And well I think now hes going to kick my ass... or would you guys be just mad at your girl if you where in his position?im deaddd
you took the words right outta my mouthOriginally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
LMFAO!!
Well, the kid's got balls... I'll give him that hahaha
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.