hungry_american
Don Juan
yeah im so stupid. I should of just kept her in the sack and had fun until I left for basic training.. Now to just wait for him to come after me..
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sleeping with another man's woman is bad.Originally posted by hungry_american
yeah im so stupid. I should of just kept her in the sack and had fun until I left for basic training.. Now to just wait for him to come after me..
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She ain't goody goody if she is cheating!Originally posted by hungry_american
Hiding... Man I hope she doesnt make up some lame story. Like oh he raped me or some bull****. But in the pictures shes all smiling. Not only that she talked to him on the phone like noo and Im sure he could tell she wasnt drunk. And shes one of those goody goody no drugs or drink girls.. gahh ****
Quit and don't show up. Don't be stupid.Originally posted by hungry_american
Todays my last day at work ... and i work with her i bet hes going to come in and kick my ass... ****
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
who is going to judge you?! who gives a sh1t about that.Originally posted by hungry_american
But wouldnt that be more cowardly to just bail out on work on my last day.
This site teaches peopel to embrace their MANHOOD and be MEN and when some sl*ts BF is after them they cry and get scared. Man you are joining the army and you are scared of some guy....... GOODLUCKOriginally posted by hungry_american
I dont know what to do. Im so damn stupid. This girl I went out with kind of for a month. Well she had a boyfriend the whole time right. Well she told him me and her werent doing anything. And well I was pissed off being this *****es pawn right. Well tonight I took pictures with my phone of me and her in the sack and sent them to her ex on her phone. Hes pissed. She cried and said I ruined it and hit me and left. Even worse this emotionaly unstable girl boguht me a gold weddingringish ring.. And well I think now hes going to kick my ass... or would you guys be just mad at your girl if you where in his position?im deaddd
you took the words right outta my mouthOriginally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
LMFAO!!
Well, the kid's got balls... I'll give him that hahaha
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.