QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
My main girlfriend has been ice cold lately.
Flaking non stop, criticising me all the time, fights, she doesn't really want to have sex anymore, she told me the holidays she is going to spend abroad with her family and I'm not invited.
The relationship is belly up. Maybe/probably even banging another dude.
I am spinning 2 other plates, and those girls have higher interest level than my girlfriend so my attention is more on them lately in fact one of them is per my invitation is coming over to my place tonight because my girlfriend says she doesn't have time and is "busy with work" (again). I do really like my girlfriend, would hate to see her go, but am not emotionally attached to her.
Now my question is, should I officially dump my girlfriend, or should I just turn her into a plate and keep mirroring her actions. Being cold when she is cold, and being warm when she is warm, and let her take the iniative to date?
On one hand I feel like maybe it's a relief for us both to just cut it off, on the other hand I hate to lose a good drama free plate.
Flaking non stop, criticising me all the time, fights, she doesn't really want to have sex anymore, she told me the holidays she is going to spend abroad with her family and I'm not invited.
The relationship is belly up. Maybe/probably even banging another dude.
I am spinning 2 other plates, and those girls have higher interest level than my girlfriend so my attention is more on them lately in fact one of them is per my invitation is coming over to my place tonight because my girlfriend says she doesn't have time and is "busy with work" (again). I do really like my girlfriend, would hate to see her go, but am not emotionally attached to her.
Now my question is, should I officially dump my girlfriend, or should I just turn her into a plate and keep mirroring her actions. Being cold when she is cold, and being warm when she is warm, and let her take the iniative to date?
On one hand I feel like maybe it's a relief for us both to just cut it off, on the other hand I hate to lose a good drama free plate.