"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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[OfficialDJB] Changes to be made to the Bible

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When diablo gets back to me with some details I will be editing the DJB slightly to include a suggestions section. Old members will remember this used to exist and even though it was used it became unmaintainable. I have developed my skills further in PHP and will make a better version.

Articles can be suggested with a name, author and description (like much of the existing collection of articles in the DJB) and placed in a "suggested articles" section. Ones that turn out to be totally crap or not up to standard will be removed quickly.

The code already exists on my hard drive. I just have to put it up.

While I am at it, if you (a member of the board) have any suggestions for the DJB reply here while the keyboard is hot.

Nick
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Changes made.
 

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This Dj Bible is "incomplete".

Why don´t you put some posts (quite polemical) like:

1. Girls to avoid (borderlines, narcissists, pshycos, etc);

2. Girls who hangs out with a lot of guy "friends";

3. Girls that dump you and yet keep calling back, sending emails, etc;

4. Girls that break up and go back a lot of time, hot and cold behavior, etc.

All in all, a kind of guide of types of women to avoid/beware. Knowing what kind of girls we´re dealing with can be crucial in achieving success.
 
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If you can't figure out for yourself what type of girls you should be avoiding, then you're in for a heap of trouble. If you learn from the DJB, you should be at the point where you're attracting several different types of women - obviously you're going to go through certain periods of trial and error with each of them, experience which will serve you well in your interactions with future ladies. There are some girls who seem perfectly normal end up psycho at the end (I've had it happen multiple times). Short of requiring each girl you date to bring you a certified copy of their psychiatric history, I don't see a "list of what girls to avoid" DJB addendum being of any true value.
 

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Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
This Dj Bible is "incomplete".

Why don´t you put some posts (quite polemical) like:

1. Girls to avoid (borderlines, narcissists, pshycos, etc);

2. Girls who hangs out with a lot of guy "friends";

3. Girls that dump you and yet keep calling back, sending emails, etc.

All in all, a kind of guide of types of women to avoid/beware. Knowing what kind of girls we´re dealing with can be crucial in achieving success.
A LOT of htat stuff is intermingled with the Bible articles. If you can find a good article that sums it all up, then submit it to be evaluated. :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by diablo
If you can't figure out for yourself what type of girls you should be avoiding, then you're in for a heap of trouble. If you learn from the DJB, you should be at the point where you're attracting several different types of women - obviously you're going to go through certain periods of trial and error with each of them, experience which will serve you well in your interactions with future ladies. There are some girls who seem perfectly normal end up psycho at the end (I've had it happen multiple times). Short of requiring each girl you date to bring you a certified copy of their psychiatric history, I don't see a "list of what girls to avoid" DJB addendum being of any true value.
No value? Maybe for you.

If something of what I said will be put in the bible or not I don´t know.

At least for me, knowing the types of women to avoid/trouble ones was determinant to eliminate my frustrations. I started to get why I was having such a hard time with them.

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If you can find a good article that sums it all up, then submit it to be evaluated. :p
I´ve already done that! :eek:
 

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Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
I´ve already done that! :eek:
Link to it, I'd be curious to see it as well... I do remember a thread someone made stating what the different types of girls are; is that the one you're talking about?

I've searched for a few different things, here are the most relevant results:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=39168
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=26861
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=55034
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=49013
 

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Sorry for the initial mess-up, i've fixed the bug but had to remove the entry. Should be working now!

Nick
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just remember, if you have suggestions for bible material, then use the applicable form on the DJB website to register them!

Nick
 

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Originally posted by Nicholas Hill
Just remember, if you have suggestions for bible material, then use the applicable form on the DJB website to register them!

Nick
What do you mean? :confused:
 
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