"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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***Official Sosuave Average Number Of Lays***

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I've compiled the average of reported lays in the interview threads. If a poster reported a range of how many lays they've had I used the lowest number for my average (just incase some of you are bullsh!tting :D). I shall update this thread as more interviews come in.

Mean (Average) - 30
Median (Middle Value) - 15
Mode (Most Repeated Number) - 8
Range - 98
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JoeMarron said:
I've compiled the average of reported lays in the interview threads. If a poster reported a range of how many lays they've had I used the lowest number for my average (just incase some of you are bullsh!tting :D). I shall update this thread as more interviews come in.

Mean (Average) - 30
Median (Middle Value) - 15
Mode (Most Repeated Number) - 8
Range - 98

Joe I'll be putting your interview up later when I get the chance.

I'd like to take the chance to remind all I've slept with 5 women (3 LTR's 2 ONS) in my life making me unqualified to give any common sense advice on chicks period so for now I'll stick to doing interviews. Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JohnChops said:
You have way to much time on your hands may I suggest getting to the gym, reading a book, studying, and going outside?
Nah bro. I find compiling statistics on lays of random dudes on the internet far more satisfying.
 

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4north1side2 said:
Men over pad their numbers, women under pad theirs. I've had sexual relations with 30 women and I'm 26. I'm not proud of it, 90% of them were fuglys and whales.
And this is exactly why such statistic are completely f*cking worthless. There is not skill in laying ugs and fatties. All that's necessary is low self-esteem and a general lack of pride. Every time you bang anything less than a 7, it shouldn't count. Actually, scratch that. It should count, but as a -1 to your overall score.
 

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JohnChops said:
You have way to much time on your hands may I suggest getting to the gym, reading a book, studying, and going outside?
Lmao
 

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Bokanovsky said:
And this is exactly why such statistic are completely f*cking worthless. There is not skill in laying ugs and fatties. All that's necessary is low self-esteem and a general lack of pride. Every time you bang anything less than a 7, it shouldn't count. Actually, scratch that. It should count, but as a -1 to your overall score.

That's what I'm saying. I could care less if some dudes banged tons of neighborhood slvts, hood rats, whales, drunken bar trash etc. as if that's some "accomplishment". Some dudes cannot accept the fact there are dudes who would gladly pass on those types of chicks.

Same reason I took and take POF as a joke and just fvck around on there and didn't bother to meet any of them till two I'm talking to daily recently. (Both contact me everyday. At times gets annoying to be honest.) 99.999% of those types have either banged who knows how many dudes online, are well known skanks in their area, have issues, baggage, etc. or all mentioned. I'd rather pass on them than need them to add to a count to "prove" something to random dudes online.
 

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It's literally all ego.

If you've banged 100+ chicks there will naturally be a few ugly chicks you wouldnt want to go near again in there. There is no shame in admitting it. I can safely think of a few girls who i've slept with drunk who i would never go near again. My standards have improved.

And if your numbers much lower, you've probably missed some good pvssy by not being forward and sexual enough. Saying you dont care about high numbers is also slightly fishy otherwise why would you be on here? Im guessing its to learn how to meet more quality women and improve your life, if you arent meeting enough quality women, you're still learning.

And to the OP, I think you'll find the average number of lays on here is bi-modal. Some guys will have 100+ and another cluster of guys will have around 5-20.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need to start getting a lay fax history report on some of these guys.
 

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Guys who pad their numbers are not just stupid...they're gay.

Having sex with a bunch of ugly chicks doesn't count.

A guy who had sex with 5 hot chicks has a much better record than a guy who had sex with 50 average or ugly ones. It's not really the number that matters. It's quality.

If I agreed to fvck ugly chicks, I'd have over 200 lays by now.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Guys who pad their numbers are not just stupid...they're gay.

Having sex with a bunch of ugly chicks doesn't count.

A guy who had sex with 5 hot chicks has a much better record than a guy who had sex with 50 average or ugly ones. It's not really the number that matters. It's quality.

If I agreed to fvck ugly chicks, I'd have over 200 lays by now.
How does padding numbers make a guy gay? A liar, yes. But gay for lying about the numbers of women he sleeps with, how?

Having sex with a bunch of ugly chicks doesn't count...for what? It counts for the number of lays clearly. What else are you counting?

It's not really the number that matters, it's quality? Matters to whom? Whom are we getting laid for here? Yourself or for other posters you can brag to? Although I'm no war-pig lover, I don't need to score perfect 10s all the time. A fit 5 or 6 is perfectly fine. When the lights are off it's their actions that count anyway.

If you agreed to fvck ugly chicks you'd have over 200 lays by now? should have used them as practice. :)
 

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skinnyguy said:
Guys who have sex with other guys...they're gay.

Having sex with a bunch of ugly chicks does count.

A guy who had sex with 5 hot chicks has a much better record than a guy who had sex with 50 average or ugly ones. It's not really the number that matters. It's quality.
Neither matters. The guy being content with his numbers/quality, is that matters.

If I agreed to fvck ugly chicks, I'd have over 200 lays by now.

Yeah, i have this kind of girl friends also. they are fugly, have nothing to offer a man, yet they wouldn't ever settle for a man less than johnny depp. low quality with high standards. the ultimate fail.
i admit, i boned girls i am not proud of. but hey, why not? at that moment it did the trick. my wiener was horny, and it was satisfied. why judge? why set standards FOR OTHERS?

i also boned beautiful girls. but besides the ego boost it really was no different. as good ol' stiffler used to say: "hey, pvssy's pvssy"
 

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Well my lay count is seven. I would like to improve on that, but my
ultimate goal is a long-term relationship. Marriage, kids all that stuff.

My standards have slightly lowered over the last 18 months because I realised that the more practice I get in the sack..the better i'll be =)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sylvester the cat said:
If you agreed to fvck ugly chicks you'd have over 200 lays by now? should have used them as practice. :)
Umm I was with a 4...and I literally could not get it up. We couldn't have sex because of this. So even if I tried I couldn't actually do it with them!!

I pity guys who fvck fat/ugly women. You lower your social value every time you do this.
 

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Here's a question....

What do you deem more important? The number of different lays or the total number of lays?

I can remember back in high school having this same conversation. Guys were going around the room bragging about how many chicks they banged. Obviously the guy with the highest number was going to be deemed king. At the time I had a long term gf and we used to fvck like rabbits. I wasn't the type to brag about these things despite the fact that she was one of the hottest chicks in school. Anyhow when it came around to me, my answer was one. Everyone laughed and one guy asked how I could stay tied down to just one girl. I said, "well I've probably fvcked her over 200 times". Everyone shut up after that. :crackup:
 

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skinnyguy said:
Umm I was with a 4...and I literally could not get it up. We couldn't have sex because of this. So even if I tried I couldn't actually do it with them!!

I pity guys who fvck fat/ugly women. You lower your social value every time you do this.
NO offence but going by other poster's responses to your posts your social value on this site is pretty much non-existent. Could fvcking a fatty make your value any lower? no jk.:)
 

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Banging an average or below average girl should subtract from your total count.
 

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Banging an average or below average girl should subtract from your total count.
that's ridiculous. if every man didnt bang an average looking girl they would be virgins.

i had a one-itis with a girl who at first glance was no more than a 5 at best. with a bit of make up, high heels etc she transformed into a 7/8. part of her appeal was her extremely flirty persona.

not that i'm a fatty fvkcer or anything but would do i care what anyone thinks of who i've fcked.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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