"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Official PYP[Post Your Picture] Thread!

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No.Danny

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Do I need to get a Photobucket account to post it on here? I'm fairly computer illiterate.
No just upload the picture and put the link here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Do I need to get a Photobucket account to post it on here? I'm fairly computer illiterate.
You can do it for free on tiny pic, the site I used.
 

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JohnChops said:
you fvckkk im on the border of Ct and NY. Lets go lift at bev Francis power house.
I'm on the other side of the state brother...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Since So Suave has finally joined the 21 Century and provided us with a way to posts pictures directly to the site, I've decided to bump the pictures threads.
 

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This is me the day I accepted my offer to Texas A&M University about four days ago. It's a big shirt, I've gotten pretty big the past few months. You can also see me in my youtube videos.
What's the link to your Youtube videos. You also look like,


Antonio Centeno from Real Men Real Style.
 

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There is already a thread in Anything Else. Use that one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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