I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There is only one solution to your problem watch more Japanese porn.....speakeasy said:I've never seen a shaved Japanese poon.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
yes i have and no they're not all hot. Walking down the street i wasn't really all that impressed.SharinganUser said:Have any of you actually been to Japan? I have![]()
PS: Japanese women are hot, they dress like they are clubbing even if it is 8:30 am.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
search1ng said:yes i have and no they're not all hot. Walking down the street i wasn't really all that impressed.
Sojourn said:There is only one solution to your problem watch more Japanese porn.....
Actually I'm not sure if what I'm about to say is true or not but hey who knows.I have no idea where I read this, but I do remember reading it.Why a lot of women in Japanese porn have a lot of pubic hair is because of Japanese censorship laws. They can't show genitals so the pubic hair hides it so only the man has to be censored. Not sure if that is true just a weird thing I remember reading.speakeasy said:Nah, their porn is way too censored.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Given that their porn is the most raunchiest, out of this world freakishly extreme sh*t you'll ever see, I don't understand why they pixel blur the poon.Sojourn said:Actually I'm not sure if what I'm about to say is true or not but hey who knows.I have no idea where I read this, but I do remember reading it.Why a lot of women in Japanese porn have a lot of pubic hair is because of Japanese censorship laws. They can't show genitals so the pubic hair hides it so only the man has to be censored. Not sure if that is true just a weird thing I remember reading.
I don't know why they have censorship laws like that. Maybe one of sosuave's Japanese members can fill us in.speakeasy said:Given that their porn is the most raunchiest, out of this world freakishly extreme sh*t you'll ever see, I don't understand why they pixel blur the poon.
What about Hiroshima and Nagasaki?? Shame times 100.kabatura said:EVERYTHING Japanese? What about Pearl Harbor??? shame
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.