"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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official japan thread

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im a fan of japan and anything japanese so i'm making this the official thread
4 anything japanese
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Akira Kurosawa,Takashi Miike,Japanese horror films, yakuza movies,samurai,sushi, neat japanese art,not into the anime,just not my thing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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their culture is interesting. Their women actually aren't nearly as attractive (you always find exceptions) and they're quite passive aggressive.

edit: of course this is all my opinion.
 

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Have any of you actually been to Japan? I have :p


PS: Japanese women are hot, they dress like they are clubbing even if it is 8:30 am.
 

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SharinganUser said:
Have any of you actually been to Japan? I have :p


PS: Japanese women are hot, they dress like they are clubbing even if it is 8:30 am.
yes i have and no they're not all hot. Walking down the street i wasn't really all that impressed.
 

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I'm actually trying to learn the language right now. I want to teach English in Japan for a year maybe two. I want to teach English in other countries also. Japan is just the first destination interesting culture, food, etc..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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search1ng said:
yes i have and no they're not all hot. Walking down the street i wasn't really all that impressed.

;) I didn't say they were all hot. Kyoto has some beautiful women, though that could because of all of the "Geisha" there. Maybe you can help me solve this but why are fishnet stockings so popular in Japan??
 

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I have no idea for that actually. I didn't see too many fishnet stockings when i went though. Probably just a fashion trend, East-Asian women follow fashion trends like crazy, probably got something to do with being judged socially at such an abnormal level.
 

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Domo arigoto Mr. Roboto
 

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speakeasy said:
Nah, their porn is way too censored.
Actually I'm not sure if what I'm about to say is true or not but hey who knows.I have no idea where I read this, but I do remember reading it.Why a lot of women in Japanese porn have a lot of pubic hair is because of Japanese censorship laws. They can't show genitals so the pubic hair hides it so only the man has to be censored. Not sure if that is true just a weird thing I remember reading.

You know whats funny I want to go to Japan, but have never eaten Japanese food. I don't know any good places locally so I have never really tried it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sojourn said:
Actually I'm not sure if what I'm about to say is true or not but hey who knows.I have no idea where I read this, but I do remember reading it.Why a lot of women in Japanese porn have a lot of pubic hair is because of Japanese censorship laws. They can't show genitals so the pubic hair hides it so only the man has to be censored. Not sure if that is true just a weird thing I remember reading.
Given that their porn is the most raunchiest, out of this world freakishly extreme sh*t you'll ever see, I don't understand why they pixel blur the poon.
 

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speakeasy said:
Given that their porn is the most raunchiest, out of this world freakishly extreme sh*t you'll ever see, I don't understand why they pixel blur the poon.
I don't know why they have censorship laws like that. Maybe one of sosuave's Japanese members can fill us in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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