“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is the Bootcamp thread. It will be stuck for a week so you all know about it. After that, it'll still be active, but it'll be up to you all to reply to it.

Good luck.

Good work frivolousz21.
 

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ok now the list of charaters so far involved:

Frivolousz21 email:[email protected] aim: frivolousz21
triple_ultima aim: brillopad71
easyjim
Maverick001 email: [email protected]
true|hockey
Pilot
Homeslice
wonderboy040587 email:[email protected]
samtheman
recluse email: [email protected] aim: Recluce143
Tenshi email: [email protected] aim: sming2001
ultra email: [email protected] aim: ultraviolentred
Lost In Translation
Kidd email: [email protected]
humph aim :knaggle
monotone email: [email protected]
Spaced2Much
duke007
gav
backbreaker email: [email protected]
ZeQ
Lifeforce eamil: [email protected]
doc73 email: [email protected]
Unforsaken aim: Unforsaken
stlblues001 aim: stlblues001
CapiCrimini
TinyFzzyKiwi
DaMadMonk email: [email protected]
email: [email protected]
AK89 email:Canttouchdizz75
hatecrew email: [email protected]
Acheron
peeaayempee email: [email protected]
MagicDonJuan
AFCinBC
so far 34....its open till the end of the week.

READ THE ARTICLES... ALL OF THEM AND THEN READ THEM AGAIN.
(this is week 1's articles)

CONDITION YOURSELF. THIS IS THE TIME WHERE YOU PREPARE YOUR MIND. START TELLING YOURSELF YOU WONT TOLERATE THE WEAKNESS YOUVE SHOWN FOR SO LONG. THAT IS OVER. THE PAST IS GONE..AND YOUR READY TO BE A DJ.

YOU CANNOT JUST GET GIRLS..AND YOU DONT WANT TO FAKE THIS.

So if you lie, cheat and steal. what are u really accomplishing. If you want to workout and dont. get ur ass in the gym. If you have dry skin and it looks bad..go get the Gillette skin set for men.
it really helps...all Im saying is self-improvement comes in all forms.

so lets this party started.




Lifeforce and Unforsaken will be doing this modified version for him.
if you want you can try it. if you arent ready then dont.



Week 1: Approach 20 chicks and get numbers from the ones I find suitable for dating. Get layed with one girl from the one I don't find suitable for dating.
Week 2: Go on dates with some of the numbers from week before + Approaching 20 new chicks and get layed at least once.
Week 3: same as week 2
Week 4-8: Join you guys up on the last five weeks of bootcamp.
 
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I'm in.
 

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just a question about the articles about the boot camp...

do u guys take notes while reading the articles... i just read 'em but feels like i forget some of the stuff... any ideas?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When I read them the first time I had one or two things stuck in my head the next day I tried it out. You'll remember enough, all you need with you is a set of balls. And when you come back with experience you'll understand alot more of the posts and the core of them will get stuck in you. Don't worry about it.
 

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Hey, I didn't see my name up there. I would also like to do the modified version.

aim:Unforsaken85
 

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Hell... I'll sign up. I've always wanted to do a bootcamp but they always seem to fall apart.

CapiCrimini. yeah you know all my info and stuff...

I have a question... where should the approaches be. Not that it matters to much. But what type of approahces should we generally be trying. Cold? or people we know? Street?

And where are the bootcamp aticles. Do we have Buddies to help us along... common'... God I should just start one of these...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So you want us to get laid in 1 week? Yikers.
 

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there's an updated version???


what's the URL?
 

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http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php


thats the link

READ..and no thats just a modifed version.

do the regular one!!


Also..I know alot of you who are ok with
the hellos and the eye contact. As well as I am. I am confident in starting conversations its the finishing part where I start to get nervous.

some of you who are already out there..start posting ur progess. and we can all meet up at weeks 3 and 4.

for everyone who needs week 1. then go ahead read and start the eye contact and hellos.

you will be amazed how fast it catches on you. its most likely the easiest skill..considering eye contact is extremely powerful.

practice on your friends and family if you need to..make eye contact with everyone you walk bye.

and make sure u hold it..dont look down. look at there forhead or gaze around the area you are..but make eyes contact as much as possible.

and make sure you throw in a nice smile..get it to where its natural and powerful. also if you end up shaking hands...be firm.very firm with men. and nice and powerful with women.

when you say hello..speak cleary with direct eye contact..and comfertably slow..and loud. do not whisper..say it in ur enthusiastic happy voice.

ok thats all i got.

good luck guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just aim and email

or msn and yahoo


preliminary..i had to get gas tonight after meeting up with my friend tara to get food.

and I saw this girl at the soda fountain. she was a 7. nice ass body with an ok-cute face.

i said hello and talked to her some..got a little nervous and didnt have much to say..prolly shouldnt of jumped ahead to much. but I feel more confident that i went ahead and jumped in. and I made eye contact with her friend and made her smile.

I will talk to another attractive female tomrorow. maybe 2 or 3 if i see enuf got a busy day
 
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its wierd...i have no problems talking to women, holding eye contact, being relaxed, using C&F or even number closing. ( i can laugh at rejection now) my problem is that half the time i talk myself out of going up to a woman and talking to her. that is what i really need to work on.
 

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Concerning the Bootcamp outline, I don't see anything different. What is that getting laid in the first week giberish?
 

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read the bible...then go to week 1.


then the exercises.

its not hard to see.

50 eye contacts

and 50 hellos!
 

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Dude,

Starting tomorrow, I'm in. I've read WMS and will take a look at the Bible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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