frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
welcome
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Official bootcamp thread starting 9/16/04
- Thread starter frivolousz21
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
ok now the list of charaters so far involved:
Frivolousz21 email:[email protected] aim: frivolousz21
triple_ultima aim: brillopad71
easyjim
Maverick001 email: [email protected]
true|hockey
Pilot
Homeslice
wonderboy040587 email:[email protected]
samtheman
recluse email: [email protected] aim: Recluce143
Tenshi email: [email protected] aim: sming2001
ultra email: [email protected] aim: ultraviolentred
Lost In Translation
Kidd email: [email protected]
humph aim :knaggle
monotone email: [email protected]
Spaced2Much
duke007
gav
backbreaker email: [email protected]
ZeQ
Lifeforce eamil: [email protected]
doc73 email: [email protected]
Unforsaken aim: Unforsaken
stlblues001 aim: stlblues001
CapiCrimini
TinyFzzyKiwi
DaMadMonk email: [email protected]
email: [email protected]
AK89 email:Canttouchdizz75
hatecrew email: [email protected]
Acheron
peeaayempee email: [email protected]
MagicDonJuan
AFCinBC
so far 34....its open till the end of the week.
READ THE ARTICLES... ALL OF THEM AND THEN READ THEM AGAIN.
(this is week 1's articles)
CONDITION YOURSELF. THIS IS THE TIME WHERE YOU PREPARE YOUR MIND. START TELLING YOURSELF YOU WONT TOLERATE THE WEAKNESS YOUVE SHOWN FOR SO LONG. THAT IS OVER. THE PAST IS GONE..AND YOUR READY TO BE A DJ.
YOU CANNOT JUST GET GIRLS..AND YOU DONT WANT TO FAKE THIS.
So if you lie, cheat and steal. what are u really accomplishing. If you want to workout and dont. get ur ass in the gym. If you have dry skin and it looks bad..go get the Gillette skin set for men.
it really helps...all Im saying is self-improvement comes in all forms.
so lets this party started.
Lifeforce and Unforsaken will be doing this modified version for him.
if you want you can try it. if you arent ready then dont.
Week 1: Approach 20 chicks and get numbers from the ones I find suitable for dating. Get layed with one girl from the one I don't find suitable for dating.
Week 2: Go on dates with some of the numbers from week before + Approaching 20 new chicks and get layed at least once.
Week 3: same as week 2
Week 4-8: Join you guys up on the last five weeks of bootcamp.
Frivolousz21 email:[email protected] aim: frivolousz21
triple_ultima aim: brillopad71
easyjim
Maverick001 email: [email protected]
true|hockey
Pilot
Homeslice
wonderboy040587 email:[email protected]
samtheman
recluse email: [email protected] aim: Recluce143
Tenshi email: [email protected] aim: sming2001
ultra email: [email protected] aim: ultraviolentred
Lost In Translation
Kidd email: [email protected]
humph aim :knaggle
monotone email: [email protected]
Spaced2Much
duke007
gav
backbreaker email: [email protected]
ZeQ
Lifeforce eamil: [email protected]
doc73 email: [email protected]
Unforsaken aim: Unforsaken
stlblues001 aim: stlblues001
CapiCrimini
TinyFzzyKiwi
DaMadMonk email: [email protected]
email: [email protected]
AK89 email:Canttouchdizz75
hatecrew email: [email protected]
Acheron
peeaayempee email: [email protected]
MagicDonJuan
AFCinBC
so far 34....its open till the end of the week.
READ THE ARTICLES... ALL OF THEM AND THEN READ THEM AGAIN.
(this is week 1's articles)
CONDITION YOURSELF. THIS IS THE TIME WHERE YOU PREPARE YOUR MIND. START TELLING YOURSELF YOU WONT TOLERATE THE WEAKNESS YOUVE SHOWN FOR SO LONG. THAT IS OVER. THE PAST IS GONE..AND YOUR READY TO BE A DJ.
YOU CANNOT JUST GET GIRLS..AND YOU DONT WANT TO FAKE THIS.
So if you lie, cheat and steal. what are u really accomplishing. If you want to workout and dont. get ur ass in the gym. If you have dry skin and it looks bad..go get the Gillette skin set for men.
it really helps...all Im saying is self-improvement comes in all forms.
so lets this party started.
Lifeforce and Unforsaken will be doing this modified version for him.
if you want you can try it. if you arent ready then dont.
Week 1: Approach 20 chicks and get numbers from the ones I find suitable for dating. Get layed with one girl from the one I don't find suitable for dating.
Week 2: Go on dates with some of the numbers from week before + Approaching 20 new chicks and get layed at least once.
Week 3: same as week 2
Week 4-8: Join you guys up on the last five weeks of bootcamp.
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wonderboy040587
Don Juan
just a question about the articles about the boot camp...
do u guys take notes while reading the articles... i just read 'em but feels like i forget some of the stuff... any ideas?
do u guys take notes while reading the articles... i just read 'em but feels like i forget some of the stuff... any ideas?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
read them again.
and takes some pointers down if u cant remember.
and takes some pointers down if u cant remember.
When I read them the first time I had one or two things stuck in my head the next day I tried it out. You'll remember enough, all you need with you is a set of balls. And when you come back with experience you'll understand alot more of the posts and the core of them will get stuck in you. Don't worry about it.
Unforsaken
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Hey, I didn't see my name up there. I would also like to do the modified version.
aim:Unforsaken85
aim:Unforsaken85
CapiCrimini
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Hell... I'll sign up. I've always wanted to do a bootcamp but they always seem to fall apart.
CapiCrimini. yeah you know all my info and stuff...
I have a question... where should the approaches be. Not that it matters to much. But what type of approahces should we generally be trying. Cold? or people we know? Street?
And where are the bootcamp aticles. Do we have Buddies to help us along... common'... God I should just start one of these...
CapiCrimini. yeah you know all my info and stuff...
I have a question... where should the approaches be. Not that it matters to much. But what type of approahces should we generally be trying. Cold? or people we know? Street?
And where are the bootcamp aticles. Do we have Buddies to help us along... common'... God I should just start one of these...
my aim is Recluce143 and email is [email protected] .... not the ones listed above
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
stlblues001
New Member
hey, whats up, im gonna give this a try....
stlblues001
stlblues001
dereklearnslow
Don Juan
So you want us to get laid in 1 week? Yikers.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php
thats the link
READ..and no thats just a modifed version.
do the regular one!!
Also..I know alot of you who are ok with
the hellos and the eye contact. As well as I am. I am confident in starting conversations its the finishing part where I start to get nervous.
some of you who are already out there..start posting ur progess. and we can all meet up at weeks 3 and 4.
for everyone who needs week 1. then go ahead read and start the eye contact and hellos.
you will be amazed how fast it catches on you. its most likely the easiest skill..considering eye contact is extremely powerful.
practice on your friends and family if you need to..make eye contact with everyone you walk bye.
and make sure u hold it..dont look down. look at there forhead or gaze around the area you are..but make eyes contact as much as possible.
and make sure you throw in a nice smile..get it to where its natural and powerful. also if you end up shaking hands...be firm.very firm with men. and nice and powerful with women.
when you say hello..speak cleary with direct eye contact..and comfertably slow..and loud. do not whisper..say it in ur enthusiastic happy voice.
ok thats all i got.
good luck guys.
thats the link
READ..and no thats just a modifed version.
do the regular one!!
Also..I know alot of you who are ok with
the hellos and the eye contact. As well as I am. I am confident in starting conversations its the finishing part where I start to get nervous.
some of you who are already out there..start posting ur progess. and we can all meet up at weeks 3 and 4.
for everyone who needs week 1. then go ahead read and start the eye contact and hellos.
you will be amazed how fast it catches on you. its most likely the easiest skill..considering eye contact is extremely powerful.
practice on your friends and family if you need to..make eye contact with everyone you walk bye.
and make sure u hold it..dont look down. look at there forhead or gaze around the area you are..but make eyes contact as much as possible.
and make sure you throw in a nice smile..get it to where its natural and powerful. also if you end up shaking hands...be firm.very firm with men. and nice and powerful with women.
when you say hello..speak cleary with direct eye contact..and comfertably slow..and loud. do not whisper..say it in ur enthusiastic happy voice.
ok thats all i got.
good luck guys.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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im in, what info u need?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
just aim and email
or msn and yahoo
preliminary..i had to get gas tonight after meeting up with my friend tara to get food.
and I saw this girl at the soda fountain. she was a 7. nice ass body with an ok-cute face.
i said hello and talked to her some..got a little nervous and didnt have much to say..prolly shouldnt of jumped ahead to much. but I feel more confident that i went ahead and jumped in. and I made eye contact with her friend and made her smile.
I will talk to another attractive female tomrorow. maybe 2 or 3 if i see enuf got a busy day
or msn and yahoo
preliminary..i had to get gas tonight after meeting up with my friend tara to get food.
and I saw this girl at the soda fountain. she was a 7. nice ass body with an ok-cute face.
i said hello and talked to her some..got a little nervous and didnt have much to say..prolly shouldnt of jumped ahead to much. but I feel more confident that i went ahead and jumped in. and I made eye contact with her friend and made her smile.
I will talk to another attractive female tomrorow. maybe 2 or 3 if i see enuf got a busy day
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its wierd...i have no problems talking to women, holding eye contact, being relaxed, using C&F or even number closing. ( i can laugh at rejection now) my problem is that half the time i talk myself out of going up to a woman and talking to her. that is what i really need to work on.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
read the bible...then go to week 1.
then the exercises.
its not hard to see.
50 eye contacts
and 50 hellos!
then the exercises.
its not hard to see.
50 eye contacts
and 50 hellos!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.