"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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keemojung

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Im doint my internship for my junior year at this new office.

Im 20 yrs old and she is like 30 yrs old (9/10), not arrogant but way like hard to get.

Almost everybody in the office says that she is hard to get.

I say hello to her and have a lil chitchat one day at the office.

We also have some chitchat on fb.

The bottom line is that I got only 7 days before I finish the internship.

How should I hit on her and close the deal? Is she gonna feel like im too young and maybe she want some kind of LTR? (I just wanna date with her and eventually get her into my bed)

I sit in the office in the manner she sits behind me.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jay Dee

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Moving to another office is better than staying there, for the purpose of seeing what happens, I say go for it - you'll be isolated somewhat (as you'll still be with the same firm) if it goes astray

Try and get the digits though, move away from the computer and work phone and get her in person instead - only speak to her once a week (unless it's business) so you'll not be too available.
 

keemojung

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Tyson420 said:
You're an idiot.

Didn't you just get hired?
I don't get what you mean.

What does being hired or not has anything to do with hitting on this chick?
 

keemojung

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Jay Dee said:
Moving to another office is better than staying there, for the purpose of seeing what happens, I say go for it - you'll be isolated somewhat (as you'll still be with the same firm) if it goes astray

Try and get the digits though, move away from the computer and work phone and get her in person instead - only speak to her once a week (unless it's business) so you'll not be too available.
Are you saying that I should not talk to her during the working hour
if it isn't about the business?

Why do u suggest I move on?

If i get the digit, then, can I ask her out right away?
I mean in a few days later.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I see you edited your original post to make things clearer.

The original implied you were moving to a different location in the same firm - but if you are leaving forever in 7 days then go for the digits because you ideally want to get her out in person as more is likely to happen there than on the phone or online.

Just chat to her a little bit to warm her up, then get the num, then yup a few days later is ok to arrange an evening out for drinks.
 

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I'd do it until you're officially out of there. You never know when someone's gonna pull the SEXUAL HARASSMENT card on you.
 
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