"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Office girls so charming?

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Im doint my internship for my junior year at this new office.

Im 20 yrs old and she is like 30 yrs old (9/10), not arrogant but way like hard to get.

Almost everybody in the office says that she is hard to get.

I say hello to her and have a lil chitchat one day at the office.

We also have some chitchat on fb.

The bottom line is that I got only 7 days before I finish the internship.

How should I hit on her and close the deal? Is she gonna feel like im too young and maybe she want some kind of LTR? (I just wanna date with her and eventually get her into my bed)

I sit in the office in the manner she sits behind me.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moving to another office is better than staying there, for the purpose of seeing what happens, I say go for it - you'll be isolated somewhat (as you'll still be with the same firm) if it goes astray

Try and get the digits though, move away from the computer and work phone and get her in person instead - only speak to her once a week (unless it's business) so you'll not be too available.
 

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Tyson420 said:
You're an idiot.

Didn't you just get hired?
I don't get what you mean.

What does being hired or not has anything to do with hitting on this chick?
 

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Jay Dee said:
Moving to another office is better than staying there, for the purpose of seeing what happens, I say go for it - you'll be isolated somewhat (as you'll still be with the same firm) if it goes astray

Try and get the digits though, move away from the computer and work phone and get her in person instead - only speak to her once a week (unless it's business) so you'll not be too available.
Are you saying that I should not talk to her during the working hour
if it isn't about the business?

Why do u suggest I move on?

If i get the digit, then, can I ask her out right away?
I mean in a few days later.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I see you edited your original post to make things clearer.

The original implied you were moving to a different location in the same firm - but if you are leaving forever in 7 days then go for the digits because you ideally want to get her out in person as more is likely to happen there than on the phone or online.

Just chat to her a little bit to warm her up, then get the num, then yup a few days later is ok to arrange an evening out for drinks.
 

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I'd do it until you're officially out of there. You never know when someone's gonna pull the SEXUAL HARASSMENT card on you.
 
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