"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So I talk with this girl in the line to pay for lunch.
made her laugh, eye contact, smile, good posture, so...it was all good.

question is...

she asked my name and put her hand out to shake. ..is that a hint....i mean...she works at a big building with me in different departments.

said she's 28 but looks great...not a single sign of aging.

so how do you guys interpret a woman extending her hand upon approach. I should have played with her a little to make her sparkle lol...Monday morning quarterbacking
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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_sideways_ said:
So I talk with this girl in the line to pay for lunch.
made her laugh, eye contact, smile, good posture, so...it was all good.

question is...

she asked my name and put her hand out to shake. ..is that a hint....i mean...she works at a big building with me in different departments.

said she's 28 but looks great...not a single sign of aging.

so how do you guys interpret a woman extending her hand upon approach. I should have played with her a little to make her sparkle lol...Monday morning quarterbacking
next time a female does that to you grab her hand hold it and say she looks like a dancer and spin her around. Play with her and kino kino kino always
 

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jacob said:
next time a female does that to you grab her hand hold it and say she looks like a dancer and spin her around. Play with her and kino kino kino always[/QUOTE

so do I take that as an opportunity to play with her if they do that. By they I mean females
 
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