"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Offered 2nd date but what to do?

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Fugitive

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Went on a date with a chick and it went pretty well. We chatted loads and I made her laugh.

After the date she text me on the way home so we exchanged texts and I asked her out to dinner next weekend.

She replied and said yes to dinner but is busy next weekend so could do weekday before xmas instead.

How do I play this? Should I accept the date she has suggested or reject it and offer a different date?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Full stop.

You never ask for another date on the day of a current one. Secondly, its the holidays. People have extra obligations. More finesse is needed. The girl wants to go with you, and even suggested a time and day for dinner. Just follow up and make the date. Its fine.
 
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Thanks, maybe just my pride was getting in the way.

I didn't ask her out for the 2nd date on the same day it was 2 days after.
 
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Fugitive said:
Thanks, maybe just my pride was getting in the way.

I didn't ask her out for the 2nd date on the same day it was 2 days after.
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Imo you go on 1 date a week for the first 3 or so
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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