Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Offer her a mint

tsmith2334

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After dinner, offer her a mint.

"Oooh sure, thanks"- Kiss close

"No thanks" - No kiss tonight

Works 100% of the time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tsmith2334

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^ do NOT ignore the power of this litmus test.

i've done this multiple times, 100% accuracy so far
 

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Oh god... I offered my date a mint before I took her home and she said sure but it was the first date and I pussed out on the kiss.
 

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This really is a good tip, tsmith. I'm going to use that.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
This really is a good tip, tsmith. I'm going to use that.
They know why you're doing it... it's cute way of hinting at kiss and them giving you the green light
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Notice if she puts on chapstick too. Now obviously she could just have chapped lips so there is a context to it.

Every time I have been hanging out with a girl that is constantly making sure her lips are kissable...we have kissed.

Rocket surgery.
 

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She noticed gum sitting in the car and said she was stealing one...should have picked up on it.
 

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Mints are always good as an icebreaker IME. Always have a packet in my pocket and often got a kiss/started a chat with a woman after offering one. :)
 

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real2 said:
"What would you do if i kissed you right now?"

"I dunno" - kiss close
"Nothing" - kiss close



"call the cops" - kiss close and run ;) (jk)
Haha, that's what's so great about the mint test though... you're asking her for a kiss without asking her for a kiss
 

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Unless you never intend to see her again, you should always try and kiss her after a date anyway. IMO.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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real2 said:
"What would you do if i kissed you right now?"

"I dunno" - kiss close
"Nothing" - kiss close



"call the cops" - kiss close and run ;) (jk)
hahah thats funny!

ill try the mint thing next time but wouldnt that kinda imply that they might have bad breath?
 

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No, it implies you want her breath to be nice and minty for the kiss...and I'd rather just go for it than ask her "What would you do..." because asking her implies you're a little bit afraid to kiss her.
 
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