"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Offer her a mint

tsmith2334

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After dinner, offer her a mint.

"Oooh sure, thanks"- Kiss close

"No thanks" - No kiss tonight

Works 100% of the time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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^ do NOT ignore the power of this litmus test.

i've done this multiple times, 100% accuracy so far
 

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Oh god... I offered my date a mint before I took her home and she said sure but it was the first date and I pussed out on the kiss.
 

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This really is a good tip, tsmith. I'm going to use that.
 

tsmith2334

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Atom Smasher said:
This really is a good tip, tsmith. I'm going to use that.
They know why you're doing it... it's cute way of hinting at kiss and them giving you the green light
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Notice if she puts on chapstick too. Now obviously she could just have chapped lips so there is a context to it.

Every time I have been hanging out with a girl that is constantly making sure her lips are kissable...we have kissed.

Rocket surgery.
 

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She noticed gum sitting in the car and said she was stealing one...should have picked up on it.
 

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Mints are always good as an icebreaker IME. Always have a packet in my pocket and often got a kiss/started a chat with a woman after offering one. :)
 

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real2 said:
"What would you do if i kissed you right now?"

"I dunno" - kiss close
"Nothing" - kiss close



"call the cops" - kiss close and run ;) (jk)
Haha, that's what's so great about the mint test though... you're asking her for a kiss without asking her for a kiss
 

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Unless you never intend to see her again, you should always try and kiss her after a date anyway. IMO.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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real2 said:
"What would you do if i kissed you right now?"

"I dunno" - kiss close
"Nothing" - kiss close



"call the cops" - kiss close and run ;) (jk)
hahah thats funny!

ill try the mint thing next time but wouldnt that kinda imply that they might have bad breath?
 

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No, it implies you want her breath to be nice and minty for the kiss...and I'd rather just go for it than ask her "What would you do..." because asking her implies you're a little bit afraid to kiss her.
 
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