"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Off to college! Advice?

Freigeist

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Hey I'm going off to college pretty soon so I'm looking for some advice on college life in general. Let me first tell you my situation.

I'm majoring in Computer Engineering, the university I'm attending has a female/male ratio of 40/60, because our school is known for math and engineering. I'm also enrolled in a co-op program, basically I have 8 academic terms and 6 work terms each term is 4 months. That means first year I stay on campus for the first term, then work for the second term, and I stay on campus during the summer to finish my academic term. This is kinda a challenge since it would be hard to know that many ppl if I stay on campus for 4 months as opposed to 8. My residence building is co-ed, but each floor is single gendered, so you have a floor all guys and the floor above that would be all girls. That's pretty much all I can tell you at the moment. I'm not that optimistic cuz I'm discouraged by the ratio, the single-sex floors and my schedule which all gets in the way of djing. Opinions and suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Monster

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Don't worry too much about that. I'm sure there are other schools nearby and most guys at a math/engineering school probably don't go out so that would even things out when you go party.
 

Bible_Belt

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You can be on a girl's floor to visit them, right? If so, a female friend in the building would help. Being "friends" with women is usually a bad idea, but in this case you would get something out of it, an excuse to hang out on the girl's floor, and there the ratio will certainly be in your favor. Find a girl who has a class with you, and you have a common interest right away.
 
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