"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Off to college! Advice?

Freigeist

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Hey I'm going off to college pretty soon so I'm looking for some advice on college life in general. Let me first tell you my situation.

I'm majoring in Computer Engineering, the university I'm attending has a female/male ratio of 40/60, because our school is known for math and engineering. I'm also enrolled in a co-op program, basically I have 8 academic terms and 6 work terms each term is 4 months. That means first year I stay on campus for the first term, then work for the second term, and I stay on campus during the summer to finish my academic term. This is kinda a challenge since it would be hard to know that many ppl if I stay on campus for 4 months as opposed to 8. My residence building is co-ed, but each floor is single gendered, so you have a floor all guys and the floor above that would be all girls. That's pretty much all I can tell you at the moment. I'm not that optimistic cuz I'm discouraged by the ratio, the single-sex floors and my schedule which all gets in the way of djing. Opinions and suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Monster

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Don't worry too much about that. I'm sure there are other schools nearby and most guys at a math/engineering school probably don't go out so that would even things out when you go party.
 

Bible_Belt

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You can be on a girl's floor to visit them, right? If so, a female friend in the building would help. Being "friends" with women is usually a bad idea, but in this case you would get something out of it, an excuse to hang out on the girl's floor, and there the ratio will certainly be in your favor. Find a girl who has a class with you, and you have a common interest right away.
 
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