so u gonna fuk her brains out?omgwtfm8 said:Next time me and this chick hang out, I'm not going to hold back from the hooking up. I think she needs a reason to leave. Not just knowing i'm there. She needs some smashing from someone else.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.