"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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omgwtfm8 said:
Next time me and this chick hang out, I'm not going to hold back from the hooking up. I think she needs a reason to leave. Not just knowing i'm there. She needs some smashing from someone else.
so u gonna fuk her brains out?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sexy_kuta said:
so u gonna fuk her brains out?
Definitely.

I think I remember being in this same situation before. I was refraining from hooking up with someone before because I wanted to pursue her for more than one occasion, not just a hook up. Then someone else came in and hooked up with her big time and I didn't hear from her since.
 

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good i like that thinking, honeslty bro, im talking BASED ON EXPERIENCE, its not good, i mean its REAL not good to presure a girl in her state of mind right now, its a fuking hell hole.

just shift her emotions because their on a fast rollercoaster right now
 
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