"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Of these example what one is the most attractive to women ?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My brother is an I and I'm an S who doesn't like to take credit.

I think an 'I' is the best with women.
 

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"What most attractive to women"

F what women thinks. Life is dynamic and flexible.
of course, that/you are correct on that one. I would guess that is a viewpoint that had to be learned.
 

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My brother is an I and I'm an S who doesn't like to take credit.

I think an 'I' is the best with women.
interesting. I would have guessed that and fit exactly based on your posts. that is a strength for a lady IMO.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That is not my understanding of Type D. I thought Type D's are quite the opposite.


TLDR: It's over for D-cels.
 
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That is not my understanding of Type D. I thought Type D's are quite the opposite.


TLDR: It's over for D-cels.
Different systems label the results differently.

typeD for DISC means Dominant. DISC is looking at the ability and all 4 main focus, as well as the 16 combinations. ALL have some strengths that can be leveraged.

Type D from the very well mind means something different, it is a different measurement system. In that one, D would be not desirable, although that person would likely have abilities that others do not.
 

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Different systems label the results differently.

typeD for DISC means Dominant. DISC is looking at the ability and all 4 main focus, as well as the 16 combinations. ALL have some strengths that can be leveraged.

Type D from the very well mind means something different, it is a different measurement system. In that one, D would be not desirable, although that person would likely have abilities that others do not.
Yeah you're right. Completely different model. I just skimmed it quickly and thought of the traditional A, B, C, D model.
 
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