You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My brother is an I and I'm an S who doesn't like to take credit.What is the best disc profile for leadership?
What is the best disc profile for leadership? The answer may surprise you, but all DISC personality types can be successful leaders.
What one is like you; why is it good? Of these who would have gotten more interest?
Point is that is a path for any...
of course, that/you are correct on that one. I would guess that is a viewpoint that had to be learned.
interesting. I would have guessed that and fit exactly based on your posts. that is a strength for a lady IMO.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I am trying to help my community more with volunteering.
Different systems label the results differently.That is not my understanding of Type D. I thought Type D's are quite the opposite.
What Does It Mean to Have Type D Personality?
Learn about the common set of characteristics that type D personalities common exhibit and how it can be harmful to one's health and relationships.www.verywellmind.com
TLDR: It's over for D-cels.
Yeah you're right. Completely different model. I just skimmed it quickly and thought of the traditional A, B, C, D model.