"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ode to the Old Guys

Bible_Belt

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fwiw, your outlook on life will probably change a lot in the next ten years. I think it does for everyone. The consequences of your actions become more noticeable. In WW2, the British would not let males over age 23 be fighter pilots, because that was about the age that the typical male realizes his own mortality, and a fighter pilot who is worried about dying is a waste of a plane.

I used to binge drink, do any drug I could get, bang any ho I could get, and engage in any opportunity for risk-taking behavior. I have not given up all of these things, but I am certainly more conscious of bad possibilities.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In fact, you dont want to know what else ive been thinking and writing - ive written stuff as of late that would make Shakespeare look bad
Post some of it. I bet it's not very good.
 

ElChoclo

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Don't get sore Shezzler;

1 Yes we've got partners, and lots of expartners. And children.

2 No we don't discuss seduction with them. Do you discuss bait selection with a fish.

3 No they don't expect performance (see 2)

4 No I don't tell them about my advice here. Does the priest tell everyone what he just heard in confession?

Just like the Seinfeld joke. Shezzler you're just a human being. Big deal. I've made people.
 

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SHEZZLER
I VE READ YOUR BLOGG
AWESOME AS OUR u s FRIENDS WOULD SAY
I LIKED THE BIT about the ugly dude dating the girl we fancied but we were too damn shy to approach

prinsloo
suidafrika
france
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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