"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Odd

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Hello, as everyone can probably tell, I'm new here. I was just toying the thought of walking up to someone I've never met and asking them to homecoming. Curious, has anyone ever tried this/anything like this? I was wondering what would happen?

Oh! BTW, no. This is not my "game plan", if for some reason it works very well I might adopt it, but right now I was just wondering if it has been done.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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navyseal2101

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You just reminded me of homecoming, thanks. Gotta get a date I suppose.
 

andreus

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Actually, yes, I have tried this.

I sort of went through a phase as a freshman where I thought all the girls I knew well were sort of *****es. So, I just found one girl I thought was attractive, and I asked her to Homecoming. She said yes, but then sort of flaked out at the dance (didn't dance much, etc.).

So, I'd say go for it, but make sure she's not a ***** that will just end up ruining your night. If she is, then just go stag, it's more fun to dance with lots of chicks anyways (as long as it's not prom, because only the ugly chicks and losers go alone (Note: I am generalizing here)).
 
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