odd situation

[danthemann]

Ive been seeing this chick on and off for a year now. basically we are ALWAYS on and off and its because of her always trying to get with other dudes but yet she wants to **** me yet insists on a serious relationship. short story short... shes gotten into this routine where she tries to get me really pissed by screwing me over and then shell keep blowing me up forever.... until i bang the **** out of her but then she wants to do it all the time, every second of every day and i get extremely suffocated.. break it off.. she gets mad thinks im seeing someone else... rinse repeat.

my question: i think this is pretty unhealthy as i like the chick a lot. but is it worth it if i can bang her whenever i want and just have her on a leash? or would it be better to just stop talking to her all together...

 

[Purefilth]

You like her, she's giving svx I don't see the problem here. Maybe she just gets off on having drama, a little excitement in her life?

 

[Greasy Pig]

Yeah, I had a similar situation with a chick for two years. She'd get all clingy and angry when I insisted on keeping it casual, tell me not to call her again, and then a month later she'd be hitting me up for a fvck.
Same, the situation just kept repeating itself...and I fvcking loved it!

Just as long as you don't have feelings for her, keep using her as a cvm dumpster.

 

[Scars]

I had a relationship like this once, and it was extremely unhealthy. At all times, I felt I was in control, but I really wasn't. I wasn't in control of my emotions. After awhile I became accustomed to the routine. I realized if I ignore her long enough she'd always come running back. I'd put up a little wall for awhile, telling her I couldn't do this anymore, and she just pursued harder. After awhile, it just became a game. I knew how to get her back, but I didn't know how to stop getting her to sleep with other dudes. (Some of the times, she was trying to get at my "friends" to get back at me.) Extremely unhealthy, and it wasn't until a gigantic blow out where I finally got rid of her for good. I had to change my phone number twice because of her, even that didn't stop her. It wasn't until she moved 3 states away before she finally let go. But she still tries to call me from time to time, which I simply ignore. I know anytime she just got pump and dumped or is feeling lonely because that is when she hits me up to reconcile. These types of women are extremely unhealthy. The sex may be good, but if it's having a negative effect on your life than next her immediately. The only way I'd say continue with this path that you're on is if you can gain complete control of your emotions, but that is easier said than done.

-Scars

 

[danthemann]

wow scars your post hit my situation dead on. thanks for the insight. Any tips to controlling your emotions better?