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Last year around this time, I went to a relatives house and used my cousin's (girl) phone to text her friend who, later in the week, came over. I played everything perfectly only to be c*ck blocked by my cousin and some LMR by the girl, who had never done anything before.

I tried to use it as a learning experience, but I wasn't sure what to take from it. Only reason I'm bringing this up again is because I'm going there again soon and I know she will be coming over. How should I go about isolating and escalating while avoiding those two obstacles?
 

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Rofl.... Bring a dude preferebly one who knows bout the game.. treat it as a two set.. Bring ure friend to occupy your cousin.. Unless your overprotective bout her in some way.. Easiest and simplest way.. Target is all yours, and make sure you play it smooth, not too hard on ****y.. Specially with chicks who have done nothing.. its better to be the soft ****.. with game ;) know what I mean.. Like play her as usual.. just no ****y/funny bout older relationships you have..

this is providing your looking for a root n boot ;P


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Bring a wingman is a good solution but can you? Can you just bring a friend to your relatives, can you even find a friend who has got good game who would be able to get or distract your cousin?? Perfect solution, IF IT WORKS. your choice.

If your cousin really is obviously c*ckblocking , you HAVE to isolate her. It's your only option if she really is, and knows she's doing it.

I'm going to take it as you already know a bit about escalating ect.. And your do it fine, you've been places before and you know what to do. Hopefully you were wondering what did i do wrong? or you realized what you did wrong, and you've learnt from your mistakes.

The fact about last minute resistance (Unless your just bad at escalating) is that LMR is all her choice, you have nothing to do with it. It because she's scared/nervous or just puts more meaning into kissing and more and would only do that stuff with a boyfriend or something (Some girls are like this) but you've kind of just got to keep trying, don't persist or anything but just slyly keep trying.

Other then that isolating is quite similar, you normally can't just isolate someone. You could ask something like come with me to this room or something but other then that you just have to grab the opportunities when you get one, wether its 30 seconds or an hour anything helps. There is no secret amazing trick to isolating, you just take all you can get.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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