"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Last year around this time, I went to a relatives house and used my cousin's (girl) phone to text her friend who, later in the week, came over. I played everything perfectly only to be c*ck blocked by my cousin and some LMR by the girl, who had never done anything before.

I tried to use it as a learning experience, but I wasn't sure what to take from it. Only reason I'm bringing this up again is because I'm going there again soon and I know she will be coming over. How should I go about isolating and escalating while avoiding those two obstacles?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rofl.... Bring a dude preferebly one who knows bout the game.. treat it as a two set.. Bring ure friend to occupy your cousin.. Unless your overprotective bout her in some way.. Easiest and simplest way.. Target is all yours, and make sure you play it smooth, not too hard on ****y.. Specially with chicks who have done nothing.. its better to be the soft ****.. with game ;) know what I mean.. Like play her as usual.. just no ****y/funny bout older relationships you have..

this is providing your looking for a root n boot ;P


Cheers

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Bring a wingman is a good solution but can you? Can you just bring a friend to your relatives, can you even find a friend who has got good game who would be able to get or distract your cousin?? Perfect solution, IF IT WORKS. your choice.

If your cousin really is obviously c*ckblocking , you HAVE to isolate her. It's your only option if she really is, and knows she's doing it.

I'm going to take it as you already know a bit about escalating ect.. And your do it fine, you've been places before and you know what to do. Hopefully you were wondering what did i do wrong? or you realized what you did wrong, and you've learnt from your mistakes.

The fact about last minute resistance (Unless your just bad at escalating) is that LMR is all her choice, you have nothing to do with it. It because she's scared/nervous or just puts more meaning into kissing and more and would only do that stuff with a boyfriend or something (Some girls are like this) but you've kind of just got to keep trying, don't persist or anything but just slyly keep trying.

Other then that isolating is quite similar, you normally can't just isolate someone. You could ask something like come with me to this room or something but other then that you just have to grab the opportunities when you get one, wether its 30 seconds or an hour anything helps. There is no secret amazing trick to isolating, you just take all you can get.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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