Odd "Signals"

[In Sync]

There's this girl at work but I only ever see her in passing - I'm sat at my desk, she's walking thru the room. We've exchanged smiles a few times. One time I was delivering some work and she was walking the other way, I smiled and said "hi" and I'd started to recognise her, and she responded too and then looked down.

Only the next day I was walking the corridor and she held a door open as people do here. Instead of smiling ro saying hi, she blatantly and deliberately totally avoided eye contact, looking kind of shy.

Low IL?

 

[Knicknack]

yes, forget about her.

 

[rich_uk]

what does IL mean? and i would say talk to her

 

[Knicknack]

Originally posted by rich_uk
what does IL mean? and i would say talk to her

interest level

 

[sAxyguy83]

Talk to her. What have you got to lose? From the sounds of it, you guys don't interact much, aren't friends or anything, as long as she's not your boss (or his daughter) you have nothing to lose and plenty to gain.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Could just be shy. You might get many negative signals from a shy girl. I would go by explicit rejections rather than trying to determine what her body movements mean.