"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RabidDog

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I have an account on a fairly popular dating site. I not only use it to supplement my stockpile of women, but it helps keep coversation skills sharp as well.

WHY AM I GETTING WINKS AND EMAILS FROM GIRLS STATES AWAY, AND ON THE OPPOSITE COAST?

:confused:

I don't get mails from them, I just get winks. Is this a new technique that women are using to be an attention hor?

Just wondering.. :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've noticed a lot of women on these sites are a bit nervous about actually meeting up with guys, cause they get scared that the guy is some kind of psycho. Girls often email online for a while, but are very unwilling to meet, and sometimes disappear entirely when you try.

Maybe they're just trying to have a bit of fun and get in the swing of things by chatting up guys who they know that they know they'll never actually meet? They probably feel a bit of an 'excitement' kick from doing the wink, cause it makes them feel 'sexually active', approaching a guy.
 

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I have no problem meeting them, but I'm not traveling out of state or wasting time with an LTR crush. I am practicing my convo skills with them, enjoying the attention, and that's about all.

IT HAPPENED AGAIN TODAY!?!?!

Two girls one 300 miles away, and one 470 miles away, winked at me and mailed me some compliments on my eyes, and smile.

Man this has to be a new trend.. :p
 

RabidDog

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Whelp, one HB10 from england and 2 HB9's from a state away winked at me today.

All of the local girls are HB8 at best, why doth god be so cruelest to me?

:(

Oh well, time to go arrange a booty call, I need an ego boost.

:p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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