"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I met this girl last Saturday through mutual friends and we hit it off pretty well. We went to a college football game, have talked a couple nights since, and have planned on going to another game this weekend.

I requested her as a friend on FB on Tuesday, which she accepted. I checked out her profile the next day to roll through her pics and check out her interests, and of course there is the "HB9 is now friends with CMR662" on her feed.

Today I checked out her profile, and she deleted that feed that said we were now friends on FB (she didn't delete me as a friend, just the feed). I delete everything that goes on my FB feed so at first it wasn't a big deal, but earlier in the week she added new friends and their "HB9 is now friends with XXX" feed was still on there, meaning she doesn't take them all off her feed.

I'm somewhat confused because it seems kind of odd, although I could be looking into it too much. I texted her today after I saw it just to see how she was (didn't bring it up of course) and she didn't act strange at all, and I know that she is single.

Any thoughts from facebook users?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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its facebook...don't take any definitive signs away from it.
 
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She doesnt want someone finding out about you is what I would guess. Which is a good sign because if you were no one to her then she wouldnt care who sees it.

Shes just keeping you lowkey from the other guys in her life.

I usually delete the feed when its a new girl that I added so others dont see. Its the same thing here.
 
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Dont worry about that bro, just do what you gotta do and one day maybe it will say "HB9 is now in a relationship with CMR662." If you play your cards right.
 
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You sound like me when it comes to (over)analyzing facebook. Could be significant. Could not be. Just keep doing what you're doing when you actually see her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Five To One said:
She doesnt want someone finding out about you is what I would guess. Which is a good sign because if you were no one to her then she wouldnt care who sees it.

Shes just keeping you lowkey from the other guys in her life.

I usually delete the feed when its a new girl that I added so others dont see. Its the same thing here.
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Thanks for the feedback everyone. Five to One, just curious, but you said it looked like a good sign, but it looks like you pointed out 2 bad signs. 1) She is trying to hide me, and 2) there is someone out there to hide me from.

Maybe I'm completely overanalyzing it. She might have seen that its not on my feed anymore and did the same thing, however the only difference is that I take off all of my feeds and she only took off mine...
 
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When someone removes a story about me from their mini-feed, I usually take it as a bad thing. Like, they don't think I'm very popular or something.

I tend to over-analyze it too. It could be bad, good, or mean nothing.
 
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cmr662 said:
Thanks for the feedback everyone. Five to One, just curious, but you said it looked like a good sign, but it looks like you pointed out 2 bad signs. 1) She is trying to hide me, and 2) there is someone out there to hide me from.
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Theres always going to be more than one guy in the picture if its a good looking girl.
I see it as a good sign because she is hiding you from someone; someone out there should be worried about you in the picture now.


But like what many people said, try not to over analyze too much.

Move forward with this girl thinking 100% that she likes you
 
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cmr662 said:
I requested her as a friend on FB on Tuesday, which she accepted. I checked out her profile the next day to roll through her pics and check out her interests, and of course there is the "HB9 is now friends with CMR662" on her feed.

Today I checked out her profile, and she deleted that feed that said we were now friends on FB (she didn't delete me as a friend, just the feed). I delete everything that goes on my FB feed so at first it wasn't a big deal, but earlier in the week she added new friends and their "HB9 is now friends with XXX" feed was still on there, meaning she doesn't take them all off her feed.

I'm somewhat confused because it seems kind of odd, although I could be looking into it too much. I texted her today after I saw it just to see how she was (didn't bring it up of course) and she didn't act strange at all, and I know that she is single.
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If you get this concerned that she deleted your facebook feed and added another guy, what are going to do if she talks to another guy when you guys are on a date? Yell at her?
 
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Don't be to be this 'rude' or come across the wrong way...but you should not care. Any one who is her friends can still find ya in her friend list anyways, learn to not let little things like this bother you - a little more confidence and it wont.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cmr662 said:
So I met this girl last Saturday through mutual friends and we hit it off pretty well. We went to a college football game, have talked a couple nights since, and have planned on going to another game this weekend.

I requested her as a friend on FB on Tuesday, which she accepted. I checked out her profile the next day to roll through her pics and check out her interests, and of course there is the "HB9 is now friends with CMR662" on her feed.

Today I checked out her profile, and she deleted that feed that said we were now friends on FB (she didn't delete me as a friend, just the feed). I delete everything that goes on my FB feed so at first it wasn't a big deal, but earlier in the week she added new friends and their "HB9 is now friends with XXX" feed was still on there, meaning she doesn't take them all off her feed.

I'm somewhat confused because it seems kind of odd, although I could be looking into it too much. I texted her today after I saw it just to see how she was (didn't bring it up of course) and she didn't act strange at all, and I know that she is single.

Any thoughts from facebook users?
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I actually don't think this is even the least bit relevent to start a thread over.... hahaha :crackup:

From my own experiences, I gotta admit I immedietly went through almost exactly the same thought process when a similar experience arose. :eek:

I gaming this HB 8-9 from my school on Facebook, so I see that she deleted some of the sexual innuendo comments I wrote to her were deleted.
Admitidly, it pissed me off just a bit at first... :confused:

The next day in school she was giving me the "Fvck Me Eyes" Soon enough,
So in conclusion... It was all good! :D
 
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OTB said:
I actually don't think this is even the least bit relevent to start a thread over.... hahaha :crackup:

From my own experiences, I gotta admit I immedietly went through almost exactly the same thought process when a similar experience arose. :eek:

I gaming this HB 8-9 from my school on Facebook, so I see that she deleted some of the sexual innuendo comments I wrote to her were deleted.
Admitidly, it pissed me off just a bit at first... :confused:

The next day in school she was giving me the "Fvck Me Eyes" Soon enough,
So in conclusion... It was all good! :D
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well you can attribute that to her ASD. she doesn't want teh WHOLE world to know what you'd do to her when given the chance.

to OP.

Wow, just... Wow. I hope she never finds out how much you're twisting yourself into a knot over this because then she'll think you're a cyber stalker.

who knows what was going on in her mind, frankly i just wouldn't care and probably wouldn't ever find out because i'm not hanging on her every action that facebook lists.

Facebook IMO is good for keeping track of events and who knows who, other than that, i'd much rather be face to face or at least over the phone.

Just keep talking to her face to face, don't let FB take away your happy :p
 
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Aragon034 said:
Facebook IMO is good for keeping track of events and who knows who, other than that, i'd much rather be face to face or at least over the phone.
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Facebook is also an extremely good indicator of your social proof :cool:


But in my personal experiences, there has never been a better way to develop comfort than over the phone! :yes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think she wants you to pee on her face. But that's just me. And most women want me to do that to them anyway.
 
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