I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Those are some of the many things that make us human. Even Arkansas fansbackbreaker said:you don't know my political affiliation, my religious affiliation (though if you have been around long enough you should) or my view points.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Since less than half of working age people are employed right now I'd guess that no, they don't have jobs.5string said:When I watched the protesters on TV, I could not help but wonder, do they have fvckin jobs? How do the find the time for this sh!t?
Then my next question would be....do they choose not to work, or are they unemployed because of a bad economy?Bible_Belt said:Since less than half of working age people are employed right now I'd guess that no, they don't have jobs.
I agree.Bible_Belt said:I agree that revolution is not a magic answer. Prior to Castro, Cuba had a similar gap between the rich and the poor. Castro promised to end inequality with his revolution, and he succeeded. Now everyone is equally poor.
:crackup:Bible_Belt said:Since less than half of working age people are employed right now I'd guess that no, they don't have jobs.
Nice strawman you built there.....Danger said:To sum up, we should succumb to mob rule, despite that for the most part these people could get jobs if they truly wanted them.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I don't see how demanding accountability, ending corruption in gov't and finance, and bringing back sensible financial regulations is "succumbing to mob rule." I think for the most part the protesters demands are fairly reasonable....all I said is if we ignore or dismiss them we do so at our own peril. I have history to back me up.Danger said:I read your post twice. There is no strawman.
I reference the quote above where you mention "revolt". This is essentially succumbing to mob rule if demands are not met.
You may not like what it is, but when you peel away that nice pretty veneer you've built, revolt is mob rule. Just as "paying off the mob" to avoid a revolt is still mob rule.
What entitlement? We didn't become the world's largest economy by sitting around demanding handouts all day. Americans are considered the hardest working, most productive people in the world. We also have the least worker benefits and social programs of any industrialized nation. A few lazy bums mooching off welfare does not represent the "typical American"The other part of the problem is the extreme class warfare being harnessed by those currently in power, combined with the entitlement attitude of the typical American.
Well if we're going to use anecdotal evidence, my ex-gf who used to work at a dept store, told me how management would routinely pass over unemployed white collar workers due to fear they would leave as soon as they found a job in their field. Many job candidates who lack this "entitlement" you speak of routinely get passed over for being "overqualified"BTW, as for jobs, during lunch I saw three help wanted signs. And that was only during one hour with most of my time eating at a restaurant. None for glorious office jobs, but they were for full time employment.
I don't buy the lack of jobs bull$hit. They just aren't the jobs that people believe they are entitled to have.
lol don't think so buddyBible_Belt said:But then Auburn is going to beat Arkansas on Saturday, so I'll feel sorry for him as a Razorback fan. It all balances out.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exactly. Corporations and entrepreneurs are a good thing. I mean they give everyone jobs... wait no they don't most have been outsourced. And they compete to give everyone a better product... wait many don't and collude to fix prices and buy out competitors (AT&T). And they pay their fair share of taxes... wait no they don't many have specialized lawyers and accountants to skirt tax rules and lobby for lower taxes and more grants while giving little in return.Julius_Seizeher said:Any man with any sense of self-worth, self-esteem, and the desire to be free (and to bear the responsibility freedom entails), would spit on these looters and never be associated with their impotence and evil.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.