"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obstacle ends up liking me, what to do?

r0cky

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Ok calling the experts.

I opened this 2 set at a bar. HB7 and HB8.5. The HB7 is actually very friendly and interested in me. From the beginning she asks me rapport questions and stuff like where do I live and what brings me here, etc. She's also giving me kino and receptive body language. The HB8.5 however is not too talkative, she's being somewhat receptive and also laughing at HB7's jokes, but not giving me receptive body language, and I'm also ignoring her for the first 2 minutes.

So I'm thinking if I neg the HB8.5 I could raise her interest, but at this point its clear that her friend is interested in me. So after succesfully disarming the obstacle I now have a girl interested in me. And the target is probably thinking I want her friend too so she seems to be pushing me to get with the HB7 by telling me that HB7 is single and saying how she likes "jersey boys'.

I neg the target "I like your hair... but it needs a shape up"
do a dhv story about me and my ex gf.
I do some kino on her hands and tighs.

Target seems interested but I dont know how to handle this obstacle thats getting all jealous and being a total b.itch. For one, she's telling me to go away and such. And that the target's brother could come anytime and beat me up. UGH. She turned out to be very immature

It was clear that I couldn't do an extraction or close b/c the once disarmed obstacle was now ****blocking me big time.
I ejected.

So how could I have done an extraction here?
And for the future, how can i disarm an obstacle without creating too much attraction in them?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AKA FLEX

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Why didn't you bang her friend? At least she was a HB7. A few weekends ago I had the exact same situation happen, except the "obstacle" in my case was a 200 pound wildebeest with a face like a prizefighter.
 

r0cky

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LMAO. I didn't go for the HB7 because she seemed like a head case, and my goal before I entered the set was to get the HB8's #. should I be more flexible next time and just go for the girl in the set that seems the most interested? Or should I stick to my target?
 
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