"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Obstacle ends up liking me, what to do?

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r0cky

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Ok calling the experts.

I opened this 2 set at a bar. HB7 and HB8.5. The HB7 is actually very friendly and interested in me. From the beginning she asks me rapport questions and stuff like where do I live and what brings me here, etc. She's also giving me kino and receptive body language. The HB8.5 however is not too talkative, she's being somewhat receptive and also laughing at HB7's jokes, but not giving me receptive body language, and I'm also ignoring her for the first 2 minutes.

So I'm thinking if I neg the HB8.5 I could raise her interest, but at this point its clear that her friend is interested in me. So after succesfully disarming the obstacle I now have a girl interested in me. And the target is probably thinking I want her friend too so she seems to be pushing me to get with the HB7 by telling me that HB7 is single and saying how she likes "jersey boys'.

I neg the target "I like your hair... but it needs a shape up"
do a dhv story about me and my ex gf.
I do some kino on her hands and tighs.

Target seems interested but I dont know how to handle this obstacle thats getting all jealous and being a total b.itch. For one, she's telling me to go away and such. And that the target's brother could come anytime and beat me up. UGH. She turned out to be very immature

It was clear that I couldn't do an extraction or close b/c the once disarmed obstacle was now ****blocking me big time.
I ejected.

So how could I have done an extraction here?
And for the future, how can i disarm an obstacle without creating too much attraction in them?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why didn't you bang her friend? At least she was a HB7. A few weekends ago I had the exact same situation happen, except the "obstacle" in my case was a 200 pound wildebeest with a face like a prizefighter.
 
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LMAO. I didn't go for the HB7 because she seemed like a head case, and my goal before I entered the set was to get the HB8's #. should I be more flexible next time and just go for the girl in the set that seems the most interested? Or should I stick to my target?
 
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