obsessive ex girlfriend.

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hey fellas.
after months of wanting to, i broke up with my girlfriend a little over a month ago.

i said "we'll stay friends blah blah blah"

well a month later, she's still inviting me out almost daily (although i reject 19 out of 20 invitations)
she calls and sms's me daily.
she's having a very hard time accepting that we're over.

i don't want to hurt her by telling her to piss off but there doesnt seem like much else i can do.

she's been hanging out with alot of my mates girlfriends so she turns up places..

 

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What needs to be done...

So i am guessing that you want to know what u should do in this case? well.. I would say that you are practically doing everything right as is... but maybe sending her an sms saying something along the lines of:

"hey... listen... I think i need to make myself clear to you... I said that we would be JUST friends, so all these invites and sms's and phonecalls are just not on anymore ok, and if you cannot accept us just being friends, then I'm affraid that we cant be anything and u will loose me in your life forever, so either u stop it with all these phonecalls, sms's, and invitations, or I'll HAVE to cut u out of my life totally... (her name), Dont make me do something that i dont want to do."

That should solve your problem ... might sound abit harsh, but it HAS to be done in order to put a stop to her "obsession".

Laterz...

 

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cheers
that sounds perfect.
i spoke to her a bit on the phone last night, and hopefully its already been solved..
but if it keeps going, that sms will be sent.

 

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Good Stuff...

Ok well i'm happy i was of help to you.. and i wish you the best of luck and i hope things work out for you

Keep well...

Laterz...