"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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obsessive ex girlfriend.

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hey fellas.
after months of wanting to, i broke up with my girlfriend a little over a month ago.

i said "we'll stay friends blah blah blah"

well a month later, she's still inviting me out almost daily (although i reject 19 out of 20 invitations)
she calls and sms's me daily.
she's having a very hard time accepting that we're over.

i don't want to hurt her by telling her to piss off but there doesnt seem like much else i can do.

she's been hanging out with alot of my mates girlfriends so she turns up places..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What needs to be done...

So i am guessing that you want to know what u should do in this case? well.. I would say that you are practically doing everything right as is... but maybe sending her an sms saying something along the lines of:

"hey... listen... I think i need to make myself clear to you... I said that we would be JUST friends, so all these invites and sms's and phonecalls are just not on anymore ok, and if you cannot accept us just being friends, then I'm affraid that we cant be anything and u will loose me in your life forever, so either u stop it with all these phonecalls, sms's, and invitations, or I'll HAVE to cut u out of my life totally... (her name), Dont make me do something that i dont want to do."

That should solve your problem;) ... might sound abit harsh, but it HAS to be done in order to put a stop to her "obsession".

Laterz...
 
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cheers
that sounds perfect.
i spoke to her a bit on the phone last night, and hopefully its already been solved..
but if it keeps going, that sms will be sent.
 
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Good Stuff...

Ok well i'm happy i was of help to you.. and i wish you the best of luck and i hope things work out for you;)

Keep well...

Laterz...
 
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