Not sure if this is some Sigmund Freud stuff or what but I have noticed this a lot over the years.
One of my good friends is a tall and muscular Indian guy but more on the lighter skin side, pretty good looking and easily top 5% of his race. He showed me his matches on dating apps and they were hot but mainly Indian girls, Middle Eastern girls, Latinas, and white women with brunette/dark hair and tans.
Now I went out with him well over 10 times to game, he is more laid back and a lot less aggressive than I am. I saw him get IOIs and attention from girls every single time we went out but they were all Latinas, brown women, or white women that are swarthy as heck (think Emily Ratajkowski or Gal Gadot type of look). Now the guy did get laid 4 of those 10 times, taking a girl home, and it was always a girl with dark hair and tan skin.
Even in social situations, I have seen Arab, Indian, and more tanned/swarthy white girls try to **** him. When we were playing Co-Ed intramural soccer last year, a team we regularly went up against had this tall and tanned Italian chick with dark hair. A few times she went for the tackle on him and once time they both fell down, she landed on top of him. Both sweaty as phuark in the grass and she plays with his hair, smiles, and when they stand up smacks him on the ass while shooting him that seductive look. Luckily the ball was on the other side and only I had remained behind. A month later he was ****ing the girl and even sent me her noods.
I notice it too as an Asian guy, despite the stereotypes of Asian women hating Asian men, I do well with them. Even with white girls though, I do far far better with brunettes than I do blondes. If she has the same hair color and that tan complexion, I hit it out of the ball park with her.
Meanwhile, my blond haired friend hits it out of the ball park with blondes who are way nicer to him than they are to me or even my handsome Indian friend.
Do you guys notice this too? Girls who look ethnically similar to you wanting you more?
One of my good friends is a tall and muscular Indian guy but more on the lighter skin side, pretty good looking and easily top 5% of his race. He showed me his matches on dating apps and they were hot but mainly Indian girls, Middle Eastern girls, Latinas, and white women with brunette/dark hair and tans.
Now I went out with him well over 10 times to game, he is more laid back and a lot less aggressive than I am. I saw him get IOIs and attention from girls every single time we went out but they were all Latinas, brown women, or white women that are swarthy as heck (think Emily Ratajkowski or Gal Gadot type of look). Now the guy did get laid 4 of those 10 times, taking a girl home, and it was always a girl with dark hair and tan skin.
Even in social situations, I have seen Arab, Indian, and more tanned/swarthy white girls try to **** him. When we were playing Co-Ed intramural soccer last year, a team we regularly went up against had this tall and tanned Italian chick with dark hair. A few times she went for the tackle on him and once time they both fell down, she landed on top of him. Both sweaty as phuark in the grass and she plays with his hair, smiles, and when they stand up smacks him on the ass while shooting him that seductive look. Luckily the ball was on the other side and only I had remained behind. A month later he was ****ing the girl and even sent me her noods.
I notice it too as an Asian guy, despite the stereotypes of Asian women hating Asian men, I do well with them. Even with white girls though, I do far far better with brunettes than I do blondes. If she has the same hair color and that tan complexion, I hit it out of the ball park with her.
Meanwhile, my blond haired friend hits it out of the ball park with blondes who are way nicer to him than they are to me or even my handsome Indian friend.
Do you guys notice this too? Girls who look ethnically similar to you wanting you more?